The long and short of it....Milwaukee (and surrounding) has a subculture of its own and the vibe seems "off" sometimes, if you will. So let me try another approach with dating...I am a confident, outgoing, positive person who is looking for the same attributes in a man. I love swagger, alongside humbleness, as I present the same. I have a beautiful 3 year old who spends time with her father a couple of times a month (built-in babysitting-smile), so my time is somewhat limited to be out on the scene, but I will make time for someone special. I have always been on my own grind and am not looking for anything other than companionship and hope for the same in another. I love to laugh, dance, converse and travel. Life is too short to wait for the one to slap you upside the head....so take control and find your own happiness.

Although I am sure my profile SCREAMS independence, I prefer to have a man choose where we go/do on a first date. It attests to their personality and if you are attracted to someone and genuinely want to spent time, it really doesn't matter where you go or what you do...