hellow i am a single white gent that best described as , original, personable, shrewd, and unique. . i know my role and stance as a man. and do not sell out. i am not afraid to take the lead .i am not the nerdy or effeminite type male. i am romantic, with a mix of chivalry. and a bit witty. and can be a little spontanious , at times . i am a knight in shining armor / at times a little rusted armor ha, ha i have descent taste in dress . practice good hygine. well gromed. in great shape bla , bla . yada, yada, i can hold a coversation , and know how to listen. we have one mouth , and two ears. and one heart and we cannot lie to ourselves. last time i checked thats not changing anytime soon. yes there are people who seem to have two mouths and one ear, and even no ears. i am sure one can concur here. i have a rule . do not play church . if you are hot you are hot . if you are not you are not, ok its that simple. rule two . do not play i wish i would be, used to be , wanta be. you are or you are not. rule 3 do not play phone / online phantom. ie.. you can never be reached, you seem to call whenever you Feel like it , you give your info out and now never want to follow up. you never realy ever had the drive or motive to ever realy do so. just your ego stroked. and you more that likly you may apply to rule two as well. see rule two above. and last one here rule four. no free passes. everything else is cool. keep these 4 simple rules you will always get a true gent and a scolar here.. always. i a m a person that loves life and people of all cultures and backgrounds. may i add that also i believe that communiciation is utmost between a man and a woman. and that the cell phone , and txeting has not helped with the breach its created. the intutivness and naturalness just isnt there. bottom line is just keepn it as practical and simple as possobile helps. keep it kiss. am a born again christian. i fear god not man. let god be true and every man a lier. god is my rock, strong tower, fortress, my shield., and on this this solid rock is jesus christ. on which i stand, all other ground is sinking sand . amen and amen. women i would like to meet . .. wold be sharp, intuitive, intelligent, vivacious,driven, goen somwhere. sexy , fit shapely. or look that way. small bbw few pounds. supertopheavy buxom. bigger the better .and yes please attractive, single, emotionaly sound. stable. . i try to see this in the most realistic and posotive light and give everyone the benifit of the doubt off first hand. an into would be something like this coffee, a simple meeting. and then as suituation dictates on to other possobilities. the motive and hope would be for friend , companion, relation, god willing his hand in marrige. let no man seperate. or maybe just something a little more spontanious and wholesome fun.

what i would do on a date , being realistic here first date intro. i do not want to sensationlize it . i would smile, greet you with a hug or warm handshake. meet at a coffee house , comfortable setting and then take it from there.