I'm thirty-two, work in tech support out in Chesapeake, live up in Newport news. Single, never married, no kids. I have a dog, a cat and a snake.

Own my own car (Kinda makin payments anyway), live with some great roommates and while i don't live a life of luxury I do live within my means and still manage to be content.

I kinda feel like I'm playing a game where no one has told me the rules (Referring to dating) or that the rules have changed SO much that there should be a handbook.

I have found through my recent attempts at dating (having been out of the game and single for over 5 years) that it seems that we as a society have degenerated to a weird standard for dating.

I'm also a gamer geek. That means I play video games up to and including World of Warcraft, so if you are gonna be a negative Nancy about it you can /shoo now. I also play RPGs (LIke honest to got pen and paper Dungeons and Dragons)

Also, as my pictures may or may not show, I'm a big girl, not big enough to have my own gravitational field, but I'm not a size 12. So if your not into big girls, I'm100% cool with that, to each their own, but please please PLEASE, don't waste mine and your time by messaging me and saying something stupid like "Hey fatty, loose weight and you'll find a date". KK? Thanks.

K so if your still with me you may be interested in some positive things eh?

Well I'm into photography, finding new adventures, exploring abandoned buildings, walking the dog, camping, video games, cooking, reading, music (Playing and listening) and of course the interwebs.

On a first date I'd like to talk. About whatever comes to mind. But not just one subject. That's a pitfall that far to many people fall into.

I'm thinking dinner at a quiet restaurant (One where you can actually talk) and after that, well I suppose that all depends on how the dinner went.

Or something COMPLETELY different. Did you know that we have a zoo? And an aquarium? I think that would make a rockin first date.