Well.. first off I am 43 not 44 lol..I put in the wrong year of birth ..duh!. Still looking for the "one". I am looking for a serious relationship. But I am honest and I am very picky on the type of person she has to be.. and has to be what I am looking for physically. Which can vary from person to person. I am a big sports fan (of course). White sox..da bears!.. love to watch and play golf. Big springsteen, bob dylan and the beatles fan. I love all types of movies. (Not much for chick flicks at the moment) I am known to be very sweet but not a pushover. If you want the "badboy" please move on and don't bother sending me a email or flirt. Thanks for reading!

A first date I usually like to make it short if we have spoken once or twice. Maybe meet at a bookstore for coffee. Or a bar (diet pepsi) for me. If we have spoken for a few weeks and are really hitting it off.. maybe a dinner and a movie. Or if it's nice outside.. do something outdoors. Try to spend the day together to see if there is chemistry and we can make each other laugh. I guess it all depends on what is happening at the time.