first off i want to say that i am NOT your typical "OC" woman. i was born and raised in Northern California. i am not selfish, not a gold digger and do not have any plastic surgery if you know what i mean. i am who i am. there!

i am looking for a genuine, down to earth man to share my life with. he must have a great sense of humor, be smart, respectful, loving, caring, outgoing, etc. he must like to travel, see live music, camp, etc. he must be willing to explore the possibility of a long term relationship with no expectations and an open mind. we have to see if there is a connection on some level and mental and physical attraction. it doesnt always happen on the first date or even the second date. but it should at least be there to some degree by the third.

me......i am outgoing, fun, spontaneous, have a great sense of humor, loving, caring etc. i enjoy staying in and watching a movie, reading, cooking, dining out, live music, weekend roadtrips, the beach, the mountains etc.

i am looking for a long term relationship. if you are just looking for a "hook-up" look elsewhere. also, if you dont have any pics posted that is fine, but please send them if you email me. i dont mind if you have pics of you surfing, your dog, sunsets, etc....but please have a few of you....somewhat close up.....so i can at least get an idea of what you look like. thanks!! and hope you get a great catch!
happy fishing!

i think coffee, happy hour or something that doesnt entail too much time is the perfect way to get to know someone. you want both people to be comfortable on the initial contact. no expectations, good conversation and something light.