First things first...thanks for taking the time to read my profile.

I have a 2 yr son who is the most important person in my life. No I don't want a high five or a cookie, just throwing that out on the table from the start!!

I'm hoping to find someone to hang out, go out and have fun with. I've spent too much time the last couple of months trying to find the right person to spend some quality time with. So far, no one has held up to my expectations. Does that make me a bad person?..Nah I dont think so. I'm not looking for any man..I'm looking for THE man...are you him? I believe that God created a person for each person on Earth as long as you look for that person. I do believe in soulmates..that one person who knows how you feel or what you're going to say before you say it.


A little bit about me: I’m 31, 5'5" tall, brown hair, blue eyes. I am overweight, but I'm trying to work on me..that's all I can do. I didn't get in this condition overnight, and I know I'm not going to go back to my girlish figure overnight either. I just take things one day at a time...as we all should. I also have 5 tattoo's. They are girlie ones of course..dolphins, a fish, a sun, a rose and butterfly, and my newest one is my son's name on my foot. I am a flirt, and I like to flirt with you. I also like to ride 4 wheelers, or go mud ridin...even though it scares the hell outta me!! My motto is to let the past be in the past, and the future remain in the future..enjoy today because afterall, it is called the Present...something to think about, huh?

Some of my favorite things:

Family- My mom and stepdad have been married 16 yrs, my oldest sister and her husband have been married 16 yrs too...they have 2 children together. My nephew is my biggest hero in this world next to my mom. I have another sister and 2 nephew's in Ohio. We don't get to see each other much..but we chat on the phone or text several times a week. Her boyfriend is trying to become a professional boxer...although I have told him on numerous occassions that if he ever lays a hand on her or my nephew's..he'll deal with me...

TV Shows -Three Rivers, Brothers and Sisters, CSI-Vegas and Miami..not too fond of New York, Cold Case, Survivor, Big Brother, Amazing Race..to name a few.

Bands/Singers - I love all genre's of music..except hard core rap or gothic. Not my cup of tea so to speak. I love country music most, some pop, R & B, and of course some good ole booty shakin music.

Movies - Shawshank Redemption, any and all Tyler Perry movies..I love Madea, Final Destination, Dirty Dancing (cause Patrick Swayze is oh so sexy..I know that's my opinion), I'm starting to get into scary movies..are you, so if I get scared I can hold onto you?

Things that make me laugh- Babies laughing, silly moments, people falling or farting..yes I said farting. I don't care who you are or where you're from...that's hilarious to me. Betcha never thought you'd hear a woman say that, huh? LOL


I’m fun, flirty and kinda shy at first, but I usually get over it rather quickly. I think I'm pretty smart and can talk about a lot of different things, but love to listen and learn as well. I love good food, good friends, and of course a good conversation. I want to find someone who likes to go to the beach, the mountains or just get in the car and drive just to see the leaves change colors.

What I am looking for in a man: There is no particular physical appearance that I am looking for. You could be skinny, you could be bigger, long hair, short hair, no hair, it’s all good. I love the country boy style...and a good cowboy hat on a sexy man is a down right turn on to me. They're not for every man though. You could be Brad Pitt, but if you have the personality of a light pole, or you’re super conceited about yourself, then I guess I'm not the one you should choose to establish a relationship with. I guess I should also mention that I'm not looking for a "one night stand". I'm too old for all that high school drama anymore. Don't get me wrong, sex is a wonderful thing..but you can't build any relationship on just that alone.

I guess I should go ahead and mention that I do like to be involved in the "swinging lifestyle". That scares a lot of people off...mainly of the fear of the unknown. There are some couples that can't and shouldn't venture into that lifestyle..but then there are some that have the most fabulous times and orgasms of their lives.

I guess I should say just be confident in who you are, your particular belief system (because you may not believe in what I do, and I might not have the same believes as you..and that's ok too because we're all different)and what you are looking for and I'm sure at the very least, we can be friends. And if I send you a message, you could at least respond with a simple hello...is that too hard to ask??

I can't promise you anything right off (it's a long story and you'll have to stick around to find out) but I will promise that if things go right and we continue to see each other, that will most definately change!!! I can't promise you that I will be perfect, because let's be honest no one is, but I can promise that when we are together that I will put forth 100% effort to listen to the things you say or want to talk about, and that you will be treated with the same respect as you show, and that we both might walk away with a new friend if nothing else ever aspires afterwards..and who can't use friends?

I read often on here that a lot of men don't want to, "Play Games".

With the following exceptions....

1) Sorry
2) Pass Out
3) Twister---or Naked Twister (evil grin)

That might get to the point of things quick fast and in a hurry..LOL. And to spice it up even more...put some alcohol in the mix. Who knows what you'd find yourself wrapped up in....

I guess I should put this out there as well. I like to watch football..although I don't understand the plays or the positions..but I know what the main objective is in the long run. I must however point this out to all of you wondering....War Damn Eagle!!!! Sometimes being on opposite sides makes for a little wager on game day...winner take all.....I'll leave that at that LOL!!!

I know my profile is quite a bit to get through. It's long and it tends to ramble a
bit, but it's pretty much who I am, but it just goes to show you that I know what I want.

I think maybe dinner would be good. Movies are ok...a good scary movie so that I can hold onto you if I get scared. A trip to the park to walk around or take my kid or yours..depending on the weather and all. A day at the lake feeding the ducks...I'm cool with pretty much anything as long as we can talk.