Well for starters my children are the light of my life. I have 2 boys 10,and 8 years old...so if you are not into kids then this might not be your kind of girl. I figure that my personality stands out like a sore thumb for the simple fact that there isn't anyone really that i don't consider myself getting along with. I love all kinds of music but r&b seems to put me in a mode that keeps me mellow and relaxed. I'm not a difficult woman to get along with. It's simple. Respect me and my kids and be honest with yourself then with me. I just feel like if i'm going to give a man my all i just want to be treated the way i should.

Well i would consider my first date pretty much getting to know more of my date's interests such as likes dislikes etc... talking over a nice dinner or even as simple as a walk in the park. It really doesn't have to be anything extraordinary just enough to say that i had a good time.