UPDATE Dec 5th, 2009 - Making a dramatic change to my profile. Gonna have one eye catching photo for my main pic and the rest are gonna be the plainest pics of me i have. Im tired of meeting someone and having a, what i thought was a good time... only to never hear from them again. SO.. either i have a severe defect or they have conjured up in their head that i am some goddess and are disappointed when they find i am just a normal, everyday woman. I am also gonna make a list of all my bad qualities up front. lol Im sure this will severly decrease my number of contacts, but i would rather have 5 emails that are sincere than 500 that are useless. 8o) Here are my bad qualities.
1. I do not find cooking enjoyable.. can cook, just dont do it often.
2. My house and 2 acres is paid for but is falling apart. But, i am a single parent and have been raising kids on my own for the past 5 years. Two seniors and two sophomores in college. It is more important to me to give my kids what they want instead of having a new house. It will come when they are all out of school.
3. I have two bad knees from sports when i was younger and have had 4 surgeries on them in the past 10 years. So no running sports .... actually no sports that include anything more than walking fast. lol Play a mean Wii Rockband.
4. I pay my mom to clean my house. She needs the money and its what she does for a living. Im not a slob.. but im not a neat freak either. 8o)
5. I have a very raunchy sense of humor... cant help it, im a scorpio.
6. I am content hanging out all day on my day off watching movies and being a bum.
7. I am a work a holic... I have a fulltime and I work all the overtime they will give me. If i have the choice between going out on a date or working overtime, guess who wins? I make between $600-$700 a night on OT. If i find a man worth spending time with that much i will pick them.
8. I DO NOT have a bikini body I am 48 yrs old and had 4 kids. 2 of them at one time that weighed almost 8 lbs each. So, if you are looking for some older woman with a hard body like a 25 yr old... go elsewhere.
9 I will add to this list as i think of more stuff.



ATTENTION: NO... THEY ARE NOT REAL!END OF SUBJECT. I dont know how to be any clearer so how about this. Should you mention my enhancements in an email... especially until we get to know each other well i will AUTOMATICALLY block you as fast as i can get there. I am SO SICK of hearing about them. Do i regret having them, no. Are they too big, YES... but not what was intended and long story. I am a person, with thoughts and feelings and dreams... not just a "nice rack". Grow up guys!!!

Note: I AM NOT 43, I AM 48. ALL MY PHOTOS ARE CURRENT. NEWEST WAS TAKEN December 31, 2009.

Well, I finally decided to put my correct age up and not worry about searches, but the site won't let me. Figured I would just let my pics speak for themselves. My photos are always current within a month. I found that many guys didnt read the first line of my profile. So...... I TURNED 48 ON NOVEMBER 15 of 2009!!!! I guess what I'm saying is that I have come to the stage in my life where I have to lie about my age. (Boy, I was hoping this would never happen.) lol

I divorced in December of 2004 after 17 years and quickly realized that it's not as easy to meet men as it use to be when I was young...hehe I am a registered nurse and work the women and childrens unit, so all the men I meet have wives that have just had babies....that kinda puts them off the list...lol

I'm looking for a man who knows how a woman should be treated. One who knows that showing affection doesn't show weakness and isn't embarrassed to let everyone know how he feels about that special someone, especially her. This doesn't mean that I want a guy who can't keep my interest. I like a man that can keep me on my toes and can sometimes have a little attitude.... (that was "sometimes" not all the time...hehe)

I'm a very outgoing person and a lot of fun to be around (so my friends say). I do enjoy going out with my friends and having fun, I just don't think it's where I'll find my prince charming. I extremely miss having someone to do those special things for. I am totally a giver and pleaser in a relationship. I love to snuggle to a good movie or go to any type of sporting event or concert. Dancing is one of my favorite things to do, and it doesn't matter to what type of music. I'm an RN in the Dallas area, but I live in Quinlan, the small town I was raised in. So, even though I am a professional, I have to admit I have the heart of a country girl.

I feel that the two most important things in a relationship are honesty and communication. Of course, there has to be a physical attraction. But, with me, I find that physcial attractions don't always have to be noticed at first. Sometimes just being around someone and getting to know their personality makes them physically attractive to you. I don't have that perfect idea of a man. No certain hair color, eye color, height, ect..... I CAN say that I'm not attracted to the "few extra pounds" category, if it's more than a few extra pounds. lol To limit yourself to a certain stereotype only means that you may be depriving yourself of the man of your dreams and you won't even know it. So, send me a line...What can it hurt? P.S. If you dont have a photo on your profile please let it be because you work for the CIA or are in the witness relocation program....and not because you are on the World's Most Wanted List or married....hehehehe 8o)

I'm really easy to please...and it doesn't matter what we do as long as it's fun for both of us. I enjoy dinner, dancing, movies, concerts - both inside and outside, just about anything. I do insist on meeting somewhere public in case you turn out to be a serial rapist or Jack the Ripper...hehehehe