When did it become so HARD to meet people? Everybody has become so HIGH maintenance now a day. Don't get me wrong, it plays a part just like everything else in life, but it's getting out of hand. Some of the sh!t I read in girls profiles, on ''What I'm Looking For'' is CRAZY. You might as well pinch yourself so you can wake up, because what your looking for only happens in movies or dreams.

*****NOTE PLEASE DONT SEND ME A MESSAGE UNLESS YOU REALLY WANNA GET TO KNOW ME AND ONLY ME*****

And as far as the stalkers on POF, that have screwed everything up for ''normal'' people who are just trying to meet someone nice. Well its to be expected, there is ALOT of messed up in the head people in this world. Who cant take a hint or a NO for an answer.

It's sad really, but there is no master plan or product, that tells you who is ''crazy'' or who is full of BS'' You just gotta feel everybody out and pick a winner. I never go with my gut feeling its been wrong before many times, besides if the world ran on ''gut feelings'' we would be in BIG trouble right now. It's all about applying logic when it comes to meeting people.

Anyway Just needed to vent a little, some of the stuff I was reading in peoples pages are just BS. No wonder their still on POF ''looking'' for that dream guy who only lives in dreams. If your interested in meeting someone normal, with goals, funny and a good head on his shoulders, by all means give me a holla.


My name is Xavier I was born in Brooklyn Grew up in Jerze. Came on POF to see if I could meet someone nice, I'm not about games and Have grown tired of meeting girls in bars clubs etc. So I said what the hell lemme give POF a shot.

I like to travel alot, my job gives me alot of freedom to move around alot. But I'm getting older so its time to stay put somewhere. I've been to many places, lived in Costa Rica for sometime. I'm mixed with Italian & Costa Rican, I speak spanish very well. I know weird mix although Italian is VERY much like spanish (language wise) so it makes it easier.

Not to happy about being here this winter in Jersey but I really never get to see my family that much here in Jerz. So I'll see what happens, It's been really hard to meet anyone since I jump around alot from place to place. But like I said I'm getting older and Just want to stay put somewhere for a while and see what happens.

Anyway feel free to holla if you're interested in finding out more about me ;) Xavier over and out...

On a first date nothing amazing. A bite to eat, or maybe a drink or two just to break the ice. I can be very funny and I've always been good at making people laugh so getting bored on a date with me is not likely =)