Once you take time to get to know me you will find that im a very cool, understanding, non-judgemental, hardworking, friendly, loving, caring ,outgoing, passionate, truthful, honest, GOD FEARING, adventureous person. And i get asked why am i still single...well i havent been ready to settled down in the past...i always thought there was something else out there for me or i was missing something. well im 31 now and over time i grew out of all the B.S. and realize its time for me to stop the games and B.S. selfishiness and get some stability in my life. i do want a family and i do want someone i can be with no matter what. i do want to be loved unconditionally someone to travel with and spend holidays with.the whole thang thang.....lol. I dont have baby mama drama, i dont have mental issues, i dont have a jeolous complex, i dont believe in smoothering a person(everybody needs space...even if you live together). There is alot i have learned from my past relationships and alot i have learned about myself so at this point in my life i feel i would make a great man/friend/boyfriend/husband for a women. notice i didnt say lover and thats because im more that- and provided a chance i bet you wont regret me. Real Talk

A first date is different for everyone.....but to answer the question i would pay atention to the women likes and dislikes and choose a place where she is most comfortable to be herself and that way we will have fun and get to know each other because she is comfortable.