I prefer to meet men in person, but there are none that pique my desire in my immediate circle. So, I'm spiraling outwards, to look beyond the periphery, outside my comfort zone I might add, to see if there are any on line. If there was a club for single women over 30, I'd go; but I probably wouldn't find you there. I love to dance and love live music, performance, of all types; and if you were in the audience, well, neither of us had the nerve to leave our party to see if the other were available. Perhaps I saw you out walking along the beach, or hiking in the woods; but then I would have been with my daughter or friends; and you would have looked like a perv if you gave more than a polite nod in greeting. Perhaps I saw you at some kid friendly place, but I was too busy with my six year old to notice. Perhaps we pass each other on our way to work, when shopping, when I'm at the tennis court, or at the gym.... When I'm child-free, I swear I see you everywhere, or at least, I recognize the possibility of you. In the meantime, I set bigger and broader personal goals, like finally publishing my book, achieving the illusive balance between work and play, and achieving a healthy lifestyle. But a healthy lifestyle for such a friendly generous open gal, includes the stimulation of sharing intimately with an articulate, witty, brilliantly sensual individual. If this sounds like you, and you are over the age of 30, and not just looking for a sexual encounter, message me.

After chatting a bit online or on MSN, I would prefer to meet for coffee, a walk, whatever; and then if there is a mutual spark, we'll arrange a date.