I guess you can say I have been unlucky in love....Or I gave my heart to others who did not appricate who I am. Women are not puzzles to solve but a treasure to be explored. I am confident, outgoing, and fun. I love to laugh and my idea of fun is not what I am doing it is the company I am with. I can have fun doing nothing special. I don't watch TV much and I only listen to music in my car. My faith is important to me, I get grumpy when I don't get enough sleep, when I am concentrating I bite my lower lip, and I am a horrible speller. Yes a teacher that can't spell......There is spell check and a dictionary you know. I have been on here a few weeks now and am wondering, is there any men who really want to meet? Not just say they want to and text and chat for a month. I like to meet soon after the first contact that way if we don't connect we won't waste each others time.

I believe the first date should be a time for getting to know each other. I have seen those shows where people go on HUGE first dates. I am not about that, not the first day. I want to go somewhere where we can talk and get to know more about each other. Movies are not a good first date...you cannot talk in the movie. Dinner often makes some people uncomfortable worrying about food in their teeth and me I tend to spill things, but if you don't mind that, I don't mind going to dinner. I enjoy having a drink but not too many I don't want a drunk. And I do not drink and drive. One is my limit if I have to drive home.