If you like what you see and read, go for it! WANTED: A strong, loving guy who is as tired of being single as I am. (I've been on my own since I was divorced in 1998.) Looking for: someone with whom I feel at ease speaking on the phone or in person; someone to share the rest of my life with; a man who will accept me as I accept him, flaws and all; a man who loves a woman who will hold hands everywhere we go, whether it's playing blackjack at the casino or going to hear a concert or show; someone to dance slowly with, holding each other tightly as we dance to the rhythm; taking long rides in the country or by the sea; cuddling and kissing in front of the fireplace while watching a good movie; someone who you want to call and share your latest fantasy with; someone you can rely upon and ask for help if one of us needs it; and the peace of mind of knowing this person is waiting for you at home or meeting you after work. I am not necessarily looking for marriage, just someone dear to spend the rest of my life with. Please don't be afraid to get in touch with me. I was brought up learning that one gets more with honey than with vinegar. Oh, and please send or upload a picture of yourself. Men who have specific types and ages in mind need not apply.

Well, I've had my share of Starbucks; not conducive for intimacy. A place agreed upon by both of us, indoors or out where there is some intimacy getting to know each other; not for judging appearance or chemistry. This is only the first date! A good relationship comes from getting to know each other over time.