I am from Upstate NY, I have a degree in photography and interior design. I am recently divorced. I have 2 beautiful girls 12 months apart, they are what gets me up everyday and without a doubt they keep a smile on my face no matter what. I am not materialistic and never take things for granted. I have a photography degree & I love art. I like to be around friends and family. I love to laugh. I like to have a good time but I am not one to suggest going to a club....those days are over. I am very outgoing, wear my heart on my sleeve, not a fan of liars or cheaters, I keep things upbeat and positive and did I mention I am an 80's nut when it comes to music but I also love old classic stuff, I was apparently a flowerchild I have been told, I love the doors, Pink Floyd, Beetles and the list goes on...Barenaked Ladies, 3DD, OMG I could fill this space up with bands. I LOVE music just not the heavy screaming or rap. Movies!??! I can almost word for word recite Breakfast Club, Ferris Buller, My Cousin Vinny.... I sing in the car, I sing to my girls I am 80% dork and I am ok making a fool of myself and laughing it off later. I would love to find someone who loves kids...tells great jokes and can make me laugh, someone who might like to go hang out at a bar with friends 1 night and relax on the couch cuddle the next night (I have a theory about the couch it leads to tickling, wrestling and then it can get dangerous if you know what I mean, if you dont believe me test the theory). I have a quick wit and keep things fun. I love FRIENDS and am a ridiculous fan of Dane Cook. My ideal match would be Joey, Chandler and Ross made into one person (if you dont know who those 3 people are you probably wont get a response back but it never hurt to try!!) I would like someone who within 5 minutes can understand and fit right in with my family. I am not sure who I am looking for I thought I had already found that person so if I seem a little picky please understand I am not a snob I just have an idea....doesnt everyone? I would like to find my missing puzzle piece!!! I should probably mention since "having kids" and "being a mom" was brought to my attention as being a "negative factor" I am more than likely the most positive person you will meet. I dont let the past get me down and I dont dwell on things I cant change. I am moving forward with my life so in 18 years my kids can look at me and say "damm mom your were strong!!" Here is my theory "dont hate the people that hurt you in the past there is a reason they didnt make it into your future" With that said, I am a proud mom and if that is not something that appeals to you I dont hold it against you...some people arent into the whole "pre-made" family. Regardless thanks for reading this far, maybe I kept your interest long enough to receive an email. Hope to hear from you soon.

hmmm, I havent had a 1st date in awhile so I guess something fun. I like scavenger hunts!!! I think a great 1st date once you have established some sort of comfort with the other person would be something at random, like hiking and hanging out under waterfalls at fall creek falls or kayaking. I mean at least there would be fun and constant movement involved and a great memory to follow. Are you game?!?!?