OK, this isn't as odd as it sounds but here goes. They say all the good ones are taken. They are right. But that shouldn't stop you. I am a married man looking for a friend with benefits. Now I know that half the male population is probably the same way, but my situation is a little more unique. I have my wifes permission and she approves of what I do. To be honest, my sex drive has never dropped since I was a teenager and hers dropped after having our children. I still love her as much or more than I did when we got married over 20 years ago. ( How bad can I be that my wife still loves me after over 25 years together?) We looked at ways of spicing up our marriage and have tried pretty much everything. I know some of you can relate. That lead to some non-traditional things including a threesome. We had a friend who couldn't find a guy worth a d*mn and we told her she needed to find a friend w/ benefits and stop dating losers. That way she could get her "needs" met and hold out on dating the wrong guys. As it turned out, I somehow got drafted into being that friend w/ benefits along with my wife. That worked great for a couple years until she finally met a guy worth a d*mn and eventually got married to him. When she knew it was the one, she told us that we would need to find a new partner. We posted an ad on a website and sifted through the replies and only found one woman worth meeting. Long story short, she is still our friend and I meet with her regularly. My wife and I both consider her a good friend......and a friend w/ benefits. Unfortunately her work schedule has diminished the time we can see each other. We still find time for each other but we now find ourselves looking for another friend w/ benefits. I'm not looking to leave my wife.....nor take you away from your significant other. I am perfectly happy in my situation. This is the perfect situation for someone who is still in love with their husband/boyfriend but isn't getting the attention they need. I have a flexible schedule and can meet during weekdays. Weekends are reserved for my family.

Here is where it can get confusing. My wife and I have played with our girlfriend, but my wife isn't into girl-girl. She tried it but it isn't her thing. She has no problems sharing me with our girlfriend or even watching me with our girlfriend. We even had two episodes where our previous girlfriend was with my wife and I and our "new" girlfriend. I'm not asking that you have to be "Bi" or even "Bi-curious" but if you are, that is a plus. It is a relaxed environment with us and ALL limits are respected. If you are "Bi-curious", this may be the perfect situation for you. You could meet with me. You could meet with me and my wife. You could meet with me and our girlfriend or you could meet with all 3 of us. It's wide open. No pressure.

Don't let that scare you. It is not required. It would just be a bonus. We have a unique situation and are looking for "ONE" person to share it with us. We are not looking for multiple women to come and go. We prefer a LTR with one woman who fits in this situation. That being said, neither of us knows for sure how well we will fit together. We could exchange a few emails, meet for drinks and see if there is a spark. We are open, honest and forthcoming about everything. We are drug free, disease free and drama free. We have a good time outside the bedroom as well. My wife and girlfriend go shopping together. We have dinners together. It is a very cool scenario.

If this even remotely interests you, you should drop us a line. Don't feel intimidated. It isn't that complicated. If you are looking for just a one-on-one situation, that may be possible too. We can take it one step at a time. We are actually VERY normal appearing to our neighbors and friends who don't know what we do behind closed doors.

My wife and I are high school sweethearts. My wife has only had me as a sexual partner her whole life. I have only had the girlfriends I have spoken of. Our girlfriend is in the health field and has to be tested monthly. We are as safe as it gets. My wife said our pleasure isn't worth dying over and we are very careful.

We know we aren't everyones cup of tea, but there is someone out there who may be looking for a scenario like this. All we ask is if you have ever thought about being with a woman......or ever thought about sharing a man....or just want a friend with benefits that won't be complicated and dramatic, give us a try. We look forward to hearing from you.