A friend told me to keep it short so there would be some mystery to my personality and that women would like that. Another friend told me to be completely honest and explain exactly how you feel. Obviously neither one worked or you wouldn’t be reading this. Someone else even told me to sell myself like a car and write what women want to hear. I don’t think I could ever bring myself to do that. So let me tell you what I am all about in my own words.

I am single now for 4 years mostly because I am a bad picker. In the past I have been attracted to psychos because they are exciting and fun. The problem is they are horrible people when you get to know them. I think I was a great husband but it didn’t work out. I think that I will save my whole life story for when we meet. I am an open book and have nothing to hide.

I am adventurous, romantic, loyal, passionate, unselfish, a great friend, and funny as hell. I try and judge myself by what other people think about me. Everyone I know (mostly all couples) think that I am a wonderful person and don’t understand why I am still single. I’ve tried to figure this out and I think that I am an acquired taste. Since I am not a player and I don’t go around hitting on every woman like everyone every other guy does, I usually get overlooked. When people get to know me they always like me. The problem is that single women don’t ever get to know me. I am somewhat shy and I can’t stand playing the game and that really keeps from getting to know new people.

What I like to do will change a great deal when I am with someone. I want to do everything with my partner. Having things in common with someone is overrated. It’s more important just to want to be together and respect what each other wants to do. I like to travel and go to sporting events and concerts. I would like to more of it but I am tired of going alone. I love comedy and to make people laugh. I love music and to sing along to it. I go to all the movies. I am looking forward to sharing some new things to do with my next partner.

I want to be extremely attracted to the person that I’m with. I want someone that is thin and 5’ 7” or under. Not to offend anyone that isn’t, it’s just what I like. I think of my self as around 32 years old and I don’t think I could date anyone over 40. I don’t think I am as mature as a woman of that age. I know that I am extremely picky but I just don’t know how not to be. Chemistry is everything to me and you can’t tell whether it’s there or not over the internet. I judge chemistry by the feeling I get when I am in the same room as someone. It’s there when I get a huge desire to be next to, talk to, and just to be around that person. It is absolutely necessary for me. I am looking for adventure and romance not to start a new family. I am not looking to just temporarily date someone. I realize that there is no way that you could know if I am the person that is right for you by reading a profile but if you think that there could be a possibility that we could meet then let me know.

I just want to meet you. A 10 to 30 minute meet and greet over drinks would be perfect. We should be able to tell if we want to date each other in the first 5 minutes.