i would like to find someone that makes my heart race, someone who can take my sense of humor and throw it right back at me, someone who can look beyond my eyes and into my heart. and most importantly... someone who will always make me laugh!

you should know: i don't have an average, athletic or perfect body, yet i couldn't bring myself to select "a few extra pounds" (albeit true) on this thingy b/c that makes it sound awful scary, doesn't it?! so, i will just say that I'm very confident living inside this curvy body. :)

i wear a smile on my face and my heart on my sleeve. i am very self-assured. i am very polite, yet very bold. i hate to see anyone hurting. i am witty... a bit sarcastic (in a good way) at times, and i can be a little daunting. i think i exude a strong and sexy vibe. my heart is stronger than most, wiser (not bitter)... and i'm not afraid of vulnerability.

of course my kids are my heart and SOUL. i'm usually called a "cool" mom... but what i care about is that i'm a GOOD mom. i know the difference between being a parent to your kids and not their pal. i believe that consistency and predictability are 2 of the MOST important qualities of a parent.

what do i wish to see in a man? tough question. why do i ask myself tough questions...hmm... well, you should be able to look me in the eye, honesty-revealed, have genuine intentions, you should be gentle and respectful, yet i'd love a man who smiles a lot and makes me laugh often. an instant turn-off would be any controlling behaviors (if you've been told you have this feature, please ignore me).
in getting to know me, i will joke a little just to break down the walls... then once you know me, i will listen when you talk, i will speak from my heart and mind. i'm passionate with my feelings, and i believe everyone has a right to have their own opinions. i truly believe life is not black/white. i will respect you and will expect respect in return. i'm calm and yet so much fun. and probably one of my best qualities is that i adore the little things in life, and believe that being silly sometimes, and not taking things so seriously is what life is truly about.

ps: if i don't reply to you, please please please don't take it personally, but i will just tell you now, that it only means that i think we don't match. i've had some bad experiences upon replying and so it's just better that i only reply when i'm interested, i am very thankful for the nice guys that are gentleman about it. :)

oh gosh, i don't know...probably an evening date, meeting for drinks somewhere with good ambiance... nothing fru-fru or fake, or fussy, just some place we can be comfortable with each other.

:)