I'm a 31 year old female looking for someone to get to know and possible lead to other adventures. I like to shop... let me rephrase that.... I LOVE to shop. Shoes they are my weakness. Perhaps I shop to forget how hard it is to find someone that is truly honest and wants the same things I want not just saying it thinking that's what I want them to say. I've been told that I'm aggressive and I rush things. My motto is "you like it go get it." I don't mean any harm. I have so much to share that I just want to give you my all too soon. Trust me, I don't mean any harm. I'm currently attending community college in general studies and transferring to a four year university in the fall of 2010 majoring in pyschology taking a minior in Early childhood development. I'm looking for a career as a school pyschologist in an elementary school or junior high school. I always think, "Messed up grown ups were first messed up kids." When I'm not in school I work full time at a investment company and also work part time at a retail store. When I'm not doing anyone of those fab things I like to hang out with my friends most of which I've known since I was nine or hanging out by myself or with my family. I like hip hop and some rap but I got to say that it's not what it use to be. Biggie I love to death... (R.I.P)no one can ever sound like him. Old school R & B Jodeci,Troop..etc all they talk about is sex,sex,sex now. Don't get me wrong, sex is GREAT! but they just put it out there no sweet talk. I'm just an average girl looking for a guy that can make me laugh and I can enjoy their company. I'm not the model type I'm short and round and I know by taking pyschology that men are drawn to woman that are youthful and fertile looking meaning slim and trim but that's doesn't mean I'm not worth getting to know. So if you think you have what it takes.. you have the balls... drop me a line.

Well after talking with someone I would find out what they like I would try and do something that was what they are into. Say they like baseball, we could go to a baseball game and have some drinks afterwards and take a walk in the city. You don't have to do anything over the top to impress me on a date.