I think assertiveness , sincerity, and intelligence are some of the most redeeming characteristics a person can have .I have a boy friend though I am not into him so he's got to go .I want an upgrade ,LOL .Ok first of all I do not want to be mean ,so if you have written me more than three times and still have not received a response ,please make it easy for me and take it as a hint .I am into guys who are at least within eight years of my age , any younger or any older,sorry most likely i would not be into you .If you write me and say something smart or nice or funny then you have a chance at a responce ,if i think you could be a good match for me .I most likely will not reply to 98 % of my mail even if i thought you seemed nice .I can only reply to a few emails a week so please do not take it personal :)On the other hand , I will not respond to any one who addresses me as hey babey ,whats up sexy ,What are you doing tonight? or any thing of that nature .If you think writing me and telling me all about how you have decided to divorce your wife since reading my profile ,then definatly please do not bother .If you just can't figure out why i would reject you for something like that then definatly ,for sure,without a doubt please do not mail me. please do not post pictures of yourself holding dead things .It is scary and weird .I do not know why so many people post pictures of their self waving around a dead fish or deer or whatever ....It is creepy ,I will not respond to someone who holds up dead things in their pictures .Please do not ask me questions you know the answer to .I am fun ,nice smart ,social,happy spontanious .I take good care of my health ,I would expect the same from a partner .You must have good manners and be fun and smart .I am easy going and expect the same .I have lived in Atlanta for 6 years .I hold a realestate sales license .I started a small company and sold it .OOOh lucky me.I am starting to wonder if there is a way i could flop out of this pond to a great big one ,maybe into the ocaen where the really big fish swim.I was raised in Hawaii ,California and Europe .Most places are blan and boring compared to those places I find myself having to repaint the world arround me with color everyday ,sort of like a ground hog day for happiness. If you have kids ,dogs or a busy schedule ,that alone will not rule you out for consideration .Music - I like alternative ,punk ,ska ,reggae,blue grass,Trance,world Music and can't stand it when my favorite indie films and bands go mainstream .......oh well .If i like you i will tellyou more ,if i am not into you then sorry thats all :)
Oh and if you are a judgmental jerk ,save it do not mail me .I do not care what you think of me and Read on there is something just for you "judgmental jerks" I mean "Jims" .......Why they are toxic: They take the joy out of everything. Your rosy outlook on life continues to get squashed with negativity. Before you know it, their negativity consumes you and you start looking at things with gray colored glasses yourself.
Judgmental Jims: When you see things as cute and quirky, they see things as strange and unattractive. If you find people's unique perspectives refreshing, they find them 'wrong'. If you like someone's eclectic taste, they find it 'disturbing' or 'bad'.
Why they are toxic: Judgmental people are much like Debbie Downers. In a world where freedom rings, judgment is sooo over. If the world was a homogeneous place, life would be pretty boring. Spending a lot of time with these types can inadvertently convert you into a judgmental person as well.
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