I came to California 20 years ago and I am originally from the south. I am a hard working individual yet I really like to play. I enjoy hanging out with my friends and family as they are a very important part of my life. I like all kinds of music and have lately been enjoying concerts in the park. I enjoy watching TV and movies and just relaxing at home. I also enjoy the occasional weekend getaway to experience new and exciting places. I have traveled internationally and all over the US. I enjoy watching sports both live and on TV. I am an honest and kind person. I am looking for someone who is gentle and sensitive, yet strong. I am hoping to find a life long partner that I can enjoy sharing life with. If you are looking for someone who is real; I would love to hear from you. Girls want to control the man in their life.
Grown women know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling.

Girls check you for not calling them.
Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn't.

Girls are afraid to be alone.
Grown women revel in it-using it as a time for personal growth.

Girls ignore the good guys.
Grown women ignore the bad guys.

Girls make you come home.
Grown women make you want to come home.

Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans.
Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits.

Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man.
Grown women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.

Girls try to monopolize all their man's time (i.e., don't want him hanging with his friends).
Grown women realize that a lil' bit of space makes the 'together time' even more special-and goes to kick it with her own friends.

Girls think a guy crying is weak.
Grown women offer their shoulder and a tissue.

Girls want to be spoiled and 'tell' their man so.
Grown women 'show' him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate without fear of losing his 'manhood'.

Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
Grown women know that was just one man.

Girls fall in love and chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all 'signs'.
Grown women know that sometimes the one you love, doesn't always love you back-and move on, without bitterness.

Girls will read this and get an attitude.
Grown women will read this and pass it on to other Grown women and their male friends.

The first meeting should not be considered the first date. The first meeting is often to see if you share common interests. The first date, if it is the right date it will go in the direction it was meant to go. It could be a planned one or surprise meeting but the outcome would be a hug or kiss that leaves both of us smiling. The best first date is the one you discover chemistry and that feeling that you actually hope for a second date.