I'm a single dad who is looking for an open minded woman/lady(notice I didn't say 'girl'-assuming the woman/lady is grown up and DONE playing games and going out all the time with her friends...) .
I live in the immediate PGH area .

Open-mindedness is a plus ... non-cig smokers are a plus... non-republicans are an even bigger plus ...

A lot of women on here are playing games, keeping 10 guys on a string at any given time and have no intention of ever settling with one guy, it's pretty obvious to me after a year of being on POF ... I hope that I can meet a woman that is not one of *those* ... ughhh . You see the same handful of faces year after year on here and all the other dating/hook-up sites ...
I know some guys that have had the same experiences with this kind of thing , so it's not just me ...
I guess this means i'm old fashioned and just want a real girlfriend and don't care to chase someone endlessly ....

A walk around a neighborhood or something .
I find that doing web-cams is good, you can get a good idea of the person without having to do the awkward meeting thing if you don't want to .