I am a 31 year old, divorced, father of two amazing little boys that is looking to find someone again. My boys don't live with me, but I see them when I am able. Writing and painting are my hobbies, I guess, but I am usually up for anything legal. I do work a lot, but I have found that if I don't get out and enjoy life soon, I will probably crash and burn. Therefore, I am here, looking for someone to enjoy life with. Hopefully, the right woman is out there for me. I wonder if there are any honest, "real" women out there that actually want a "good guy". I tend to do everything I can to make whoever I am with laugh, but usually you won't see my goofy side until I am comfortable around you. I would have to say that I definitely need someone with a good sense of humor and the ability to keep up her side of an intelligent conversation. Although I put myself as looking for long-term, I want to find someone who is a best friend. If that realationship grows into a romantic one, then all the better.

I think the best first date would consist of any activity where two people can get to know each other with out too much surrounding distractions.