Hey the name is Ericka. I'm 22 years old and from Jersey even though I don't consider myself a Jersey girl lol. I have my tongue, lip, and my nose pierced...no tattoos though. I'm starting college in January 2010. I'm half Puerto Rican and I'm a BBW (big beautiful woman) who takes really good care of herself and is working on losing the weight. Love chillin' with the family and friends, karaoke, dancing, hitting up the gym with my bestie, swimming, camping, fishing, baseball (GO PHILLIES). Love being active, having fun, & laughing. Just enjoying life! Wanna know more? Hit me up!


What I'm looking for in a guy?
-A man that is genuinely a good person...not someone who just thinks he is, but is really an ***hole.


-Love tattoos on a guy...the more the better, but it's not a must.

-Someone kind hearted and caring. Someone that likes to help other people. A gentleman would be nice for once.

-Someone honest...I hate to be lied to! Ya gotta be straight up becuz I'm a straight up person and I expect the same back.

-I want someone that can be faithful. I don't take cheating at all. So, if you have problems with staying with one girl then please don't even think about hitting me up.

-Good hygene is EXTREMELY important. I don't care how good looking you are. If you smell, have bad breath, or messed up teeth I ain't gotta like you. I'm a big girl, but I make sure I smell good and take really really good care of myself.

-I don't want anybody lazy. Like I said I'm a big girl, but it'd be nice to find someone that I can go exercising with.

-I'm tired of giving a 100 percent of myself and barely getting anything back so you gotta at least give me something!

-I don't need anybody to put me down...I want somebody supportive and understanding.

-Someone that can be my best friend. Who I can act silly with and laugh with. Someone I can just chill with and watch sports with.

-I hate needy guys. Sometimes being away from each other makes people close.

-If you have drama in your life or extra baggage like an ex girlfriend lingering around please do not hit me up. I've had my fair share of men like that and I don't want anymore.

-If you're superficial, shallow, ignorant, or judgment don't hit me up.

-IF YOU'RE A PERV DO NOT HIT ME UP!!! There's nothing more that turns me off then a guy constantly talking about sex especially when we first start talking.

-Someone that is close with their family would be nice.

-Someone that is stable and has their head on right.

-Must like cats cuz I have one.

-Someone that loves to help people as much as I do! =]

-I want someone that actually wants to be with me and doesn't have a fear of being alone.

-Did I mention I love tattoos haha =]

-Someone that can hold a conversation. I hate one word answers. That annoys me!

-Someone that is actually NORMAL for once!

-Someone who isn't looking to just rush into something. Someone who wants to take things slow and get to know each other better.


If I check out your page and don't message you it doesn't mean I'm not interested...I'm just shy so if you like what you see and what I've wrote then hit me up =]

I have an aim sn as well so IM me if you'd like: darkpoeticsoul87

Anything where we can get to know each other better. Going to a movies I don't think is all that good cuz we can't really talk. Cuddling up to a movie at home is better cuz at least we can talk if we want to. I just wanna do something were I can get to know you.