Well an attention grabber???... I once open mouth kissed a horse! Well i didnt but i bet that got ya attention.. Never tried sites like this before,So thought i'd dip me feet in after a friend told me about it. I enjoy keeping fit and eating healthy foods and have taken a shine to cooking,Which is handy as I like to eat.

I love to learn, But I tend to like a little bit of everything rather than just knowing alot about one thing. I love animals but not to the point of perversion or treating them like humans (Theres some weirdos out there ya know).

I love being sarcy so if ya dont like people taking the mickey when you state the obvious PROBS BEST NOT GET IN TOUCH. silly caps lock. I aint up my own a*** and cant stand people that think there better than everyone else. you were born with nothing an youll die the same so dont boast about what ya get inbetween as it means little!! just be happy!

I tend to rabbit on alot and not make much sense too which im probs doing now but hey you didnt come here to read you came to get a better look at the picture didnt you! It's ok we all do it..

I like the outdoors fishing,walking,sitting on the dock of the bay (great song) at harwhich is cool too. I love to laugh and love stand up comedy, ive been to see people like lee evans,jack dee,roy brown,bottom and others, ive never been to a concert tho and would like to try it. Another little thing I enjoy is banger racing.watching it, not taking part!....

If you have made it this far into reading my profile i'll now tell you the important stuff about myself.

My name is James im a widowed single father of 2 great children. Im currently just looking to open up my social life as a single parent rather than looking to fall in love which im sure you can appreciate, So drop a line I'm always up for a giggle or serious conversation totally upto you and the mood.

I would more than likely cook a meal and open a bottle of wine, the most important thing about a first date is the conversation rather than where you are.