~Position filled~ By an unlikely creature. A hobbit by the name of Frakashel from a humble place in which the folk are short yet handsome and loving. Only about three hundred miles from my home. I find the adventure to be quite exciting and fun filled with strange new places and customs I could easily become fond of.
~Disclaimer~ Divorced ten years ago. My ex doesn't need my money so she never filed for child support. They all live in Texas. We talk at least once a week as well the children. With less than 6yrs before they all reach 18 I think that should put to rest those more complicated questions. There I finally settled on a way to be honest and still not hurt my chances! Ya right I'll change it up but I do intend on keeping the disclaimer portion right where it's at.
~About our voyage~ Dating is very much like a crab trap. All you need to start a crab trap is one crab and a wire mesh basket. One crab comes along and sees a crab in this thing and it assumes it climbed in because there's food in there or a mate or maybe it wants to help the other get out. Who knows I'm not Mr.Science guy but I'm getting to the point. The only way to get out of the trap is teamwork. So lets climb on board and help each other find ways to get out of this trap. Instead of undermining each others positions let's try giving each other a hand up.
~My life is an open book~ At present three American Bobtail kittens overrun my hobbies.
I wouldn’t have it any other way. Still getting out to plenty of gatherings such as dinner parties, Walmart raids, and shorter and shorter smore making fires. Best of all the kittens are not afraid of travel so I bring them along at least twice weekly. One at a time though. Simba the white male is ten pounds and tomorrow is they'll be five months. Fat boy is quickly becoming his nickname!
~I can dance all night long~ At least three times a year I attend a dance. One I wouldn't miss for the world is in the fall and our organization takes over the Grand Geneva.(The old playboy mansion) People of all ages come out and dance to all different types of music for about six hours. I like to be one of the first people out there so I can put on my best Richard Simmons or Bill Cosby moves so other people immediately feel less pressure.
~In dreams~ I hope to live on a small farm one day so as to have enough space for whatever my future partner and I choose to do together and or in our private time. A big pond with lots of fish to feed and maybe eat from time to time. Pole barns are nice but the old fashioned type are fine with me too. Fifty cats a hundred chickens and whatever other livestock that's not terribly difficult to maintain. Maybe even a few horses if I find a wild enough gal.
Not that this is my only dream! I have other scenarios just not listing them here so as to save
something for us to chit chat about.
~Listening is an art~ Music is far more than a form of expression. It forms us. I listen to nearly all forms and styles of it. Extending from Aboriginal to Classical.If it helps you feel what you need at the time by all means do so. I enjoy instrumentals for the fact no one is trying to sell me any ideas while I relax and write YOU. Listening is a key relationship skill. I happen to have good hearing and usually realize on my own when my listening skills become selective. I am a man though so not always!
~Love is…~ I'm well read on relationships. I love children and the /Open is more me as I find it a little bothersome that POF gives such narrow descriptions in those above areas. I can cook, clean, and do laundry. I do my best to live in the moment. I’m understanding and compassionate. I’ve gone the extra mile for many a friend.
~Currently 11/25/09~ Not single and excited!
Where do I begin? I had an okay time at the dance Saturday and there were several thousand in attendance as usual. The friend I went with is going through some tough times so it was hard to see her like that but I didn't entertain her pity party and went on solo. She seemed to want to go off and talk to her girlfriends anyhow.
That's history though and the rest of the extended weekend was incredible.
~Hobbies~ Stumbleupon.com is an awesome search tool if you just want to explore your interests. It asks you check some boxes upon setup and then it randomly takes you to sites based on the interests you selected with one click of the mouse. If you like what you've "stumbled" on to you've the option to click the thumbs up button w/"I like it" and it will remember and find more like it if available. If you're not sure you need not vote either way. I use the thumbs down button seldom as I never know what is going to spark me if my mood changes. It's free.
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The kittens are doing well though I'm not sure who's winning. I hear them in the kitchen playing kitten army diving in and out of paper bags after one another. They continue to eat at a rate that forced me to find a better supplier for their food. I discovered that a saddle and feed store in Wadsworth,Il. had a forty pound bag of cat food for around $25. What a relief to find a great value and quantity for the little beasties apatite.
~Help always welcome~ I accept all forms of constructive criticism and hope you can too. The only thing worse than being stuck in life is being dead inside. I believe in an old adage that goes something like this. “There is a principle which is a bar against all information, which is proof against all arguments and which cannot fail to keep a man in everlasting ignorance – that principle is contempt prior to investigation.” — Herbert Spencer
~The Plot~ Yes, I wrote it. I'm going to show you my play book. I intend to advertise via showing up in your viewed me box. Why? Because I only look at those that show a 75% and up match in the Chemistry and or Personality section near the top of the page and it's a clever way if you read my ever changing profile too.
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Ummm... Goldfish! sssssssszzzzzzzzzz I got one!