I am a very down to earth person,I try not to sweat the small stuff that only makes life harder. I feel everything happens for a reason, lifes lessons I guess, I've learned alot and still learning. I'm not the prissy type woman that needs to do the beauty salons etc. But I do class up real nice lol, but on the same hand not affraid to break a nail. I'm not into drama or control freaks. I don't believe in trying to change a person to make then what you want. you are who you are, we all have our faults and either you accept that or you don't. Just be who you are period.I see many people on here that don't post a pic and to me thats because they have somthing to hide so if your not willing to at least send one then pass me by its only fair that I get to see who I am talking to. Family is very important to me . Me and my kids are very close, they are all grown and with babies of their own. So I am done with all the raising of children. I am very young at heart and love to laugh and joke and just have fun, I take each day as it comes, life is to short to not enjoy it. I am independent and am not looking for someone to take care of me I can do that myself. I am looking for someone who knows how to be honest ,faithful and respectful. Most people want that and when I get it I give it in return. No head games and no drama. if you have any questions feel free to e-mail I am upfront and honest. I love all kinds of music and I guess it all depends what kind of mood I am in.Also love to be on the back of a Harley with the wind in my face greatest freedom there is. oh yeah one more thing to all you guys on here looking for your Barbie doll woman hahahaha ya better ask them how old their pics really are heard alot of crazy stories. oh and by the way my pics are very resent.lol
I wanted to share this poem, it just fits and makes so much sence to me and how I feel. enjoy!!

The Invitation
It doesn't interest me what you do for a living.
I want to know what you ache for
and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing.

It doesn't interest me how old you are.
I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool
for love
for your dream
for the adventure of being alive.

It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon...
I want to know if you have touched the centre of your own sorrow
if you have been opened by life's betrayals
or have become shrivelled and closed
from fear of further pain.

I want to know if you can sit with pain
mine or your own
without moving to hide it
or fade it
or fix it.

I want to know if you can be with joy
mine or your own
if you can dance with wildness
and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes
without cautioning us
to be careful
to be realistic
to remember the limitations of being human.

It doesn't interest me if the story you are telling me
is true.
I want to know if you can
disappoint another
to be true to yourself.
If you can bear the accusation of betrayal
and not betray your own soul.
If you can be faithless
and therefore trustworthy.

I want to know if you can see Beauty
even when it is not pretty
every day.
And if you can source your own life
from its presence.

I want to know if you can live with failure
yours and mine
and still stand at the edge of the lake
and shout to the silver of the full moon,
"Yes."

It doesn't interest me
to know where you live or how much money you have.
I want to know if you can get up
after the night of grief and despair
weary and bruised to the bone
and do what needs to be done
to feed the children.

It doesn't interest me who you know
or how you came to be here.
I want to know if you will stand
in the centre of the fire
with me
and not shrink back.

It doesn't interest me where or what or with whom
you have studied.
I want to know what sustains you
from the inside
when all else falls away.

I want to know if you can be alone
with yourself
and if you truly like the company you keep
in the empty moments.

not to sure on this one, maybe just a nice walk somewhere to talk and get to know you without the distraction or worry of trying to impress or be impressed by where you go. A no pressure moment would be nice.