I am a 36 year old widow with an amazing 7 year old son. I am so over the bar/club scene. Occasionally it is nice to do, but not every weekend. I love going to concerts, amusement parks, bowling, minature golf and especially the beach. I have a great job as an account executive for an importing company. It does get stressful, but it is an awesome job. Im looking to meet someone who believes in commitment and isnt afraid of it. I am very outgoing and love to laugh. I am very independent and I want someone to share those good times with as well as the bad times. Someone who likes to get dressed up and go out for a nice evening, but also who likes to throw on sweats, pop in a movie and relax. He must also believe in communication because that is the key to any kind of relationship. Just be honest and open with me - no games and no drama. Basically I would like for one man to prove that they are not all the same!!! Also if you have fully read what I wrote you will see I am looking for long term, not a fling & not someone to just "hang out" with. I have plenty of friends and I am looking for someone who has the same interests and desires as myself.

First dates are all about getting to know each other, so loud noisey place are out. Some place we can talk and laugh together.