| Blue-Eyed Man :
In Search For that Special Someone |
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| City |
Allouez Wisconsin |
| Area |
United States |
| Ethnicity |
Caucasian |
| Sign |
Pisces |
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Height | 6' 0" (183 cm)
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| I am Seeking a |
Woman
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Who is Looking
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Long Term |
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| Smoker? |
No |
| Do you drink? |
No |
| Marital Status |
Divorced |
| Profession |
Senior Technical Writer |
| Smarts |
Some college |
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| Do you want children? |
Undecided/Open |
| Do you do drugs? |
No |
| Do you have children? |
All my kids are over 18 |
| Do you have a car? |
Yes |
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| | About Me |
| | I am a down-to-earth grass roots kind of guy, I guess you could say. I am up front and honest and I will only accept the same. I am looking for that Someone Special, that I can TREAT SPECIAL and that I can grow together with. I love the out of doors, indoors and behind closed doors. I have been told that I have a very BIG and tender heart. PLEASE, no head-games, lies, booze (with excess), drugs, or yada, yada, yada...
I am looking for a lady with traditional values within life, and with all that’s going on in the world today, this might be next to impossible.
I have a complete understanding of what it takes to make a relationship work, from the start, to day-to-day and forever. And that is what I am looking for, not just a long-term commitment, but a forever soul mate. We are all here looking for the exact same thing, it is just that we go about this in our very own way.
In a relationship there must be common interests between she and he as well as independent interests, and her independent interests MUST BE and WILL BE honored by me. There has to be communication, at all costs, especially when attempting to resolve conflict and I believe in the feelings of my soul mate.
There should never be a Go-To-Bed-Mad-At-One-Another situation or event in a serious relationship, and as I have already stated, I believe in the feelings of my soul mate. Only with open communication can problems be worked out, and I feel that communication is a KEY element to a relationship. Sure intimacy is important too, that soft and tender kiss, that special glance, that holding her in my arms very very close.
As a couple, or let me say a team, there must be intimacy between each other without involving sex. But, there also has to be a fine chemistry between two people (he and she) so she can coo like a dove while she sleeps next to me. This may seem odd, but it is what is needed by me to know that I am doing everything just right for her.
I have found that I must do things that, maybe I don’t really want to do, that she requires from time to time, just for me to show my love for her. Hey, I am not THE most enthusiastic shopper in the world, but again, I must do things that maybe I don’t really want to do.
And daily, I must show what that SPECIAL SOMEONE in my life what she means to me, even, if only in little ways. This may include a random love note on the mirror or counter, this may include a pedicure every Sunday Morning, and this will include me being on my hands and knees scrubbing the kitchen and bathroom floors, and this list goes on and on…
There MUST BE honesty and trust between two people. These are THE MOST vital components of a relationship in my eyes, and to help support each other, as well as rekindle warmth between one another, as I would hope that it is the same for you. If you would like each and every door opened for you, if pampering is something that you would think that you might enjoy, these are those traits that my parents have instilled in me long ago.
I know that I must be able to drop whatever I am doing to be there for that SPECIAL SOMEONE when needed and, at the same time, respect her privacy. I know to be willing at all times to fill-in for my Lover, my soul mate when she is unable to do her daily tasks, to support her and her beliefs, morals, and values in life. I enjoy cleaning my dwelling at all times and I feel that this is a plus.
We need to be able to dream independently and then dream together to build and plan for a tomorrow. A future CANNOT BE reliving the past, day after day, and the past IS JUST THAT, the past, and to live and learn from our mistakes of our pasts. And hey, I am a guy, and ladies, WE DO (or let me say that I DO) make mistakes from time to time.
I mostly love cuddling in candlelight as we communicate and discuss our day, interesting things as well as trivial things, as long as it is not politics. President Bill had left me bewildered with that Monica Thingy and…
I would love trying new things and I would like the chance, if you would include me in some of your interests. If you are expecting me to bungee jump, sky dive or similar thrill sports, I am not sure that I am the guy for you. But we can certainly discuss this.
I like children as such and could be a great influence and teacher, but, nowadays, kids don’t seem to want to revolve themselves around the traditional values that my parents had taught me, like love, honor and respect. But hey, these are outdated concepts are they not??? It seems that they just want that constant bombardment of eye candy, or very high stimulus (TV, violent video games, etc.) to survive from day to day.
I like to cook, love to bake, I like quiet evenings at home watching a movie on this massive home entertainment system that I have amassed and I like listening to music in a very wide range. I enjoy the Internet and the knowledge that is available. I wish that it was here when I went to school years ago, I would be a great deal smarter than I am now.
So, if this is helpful in profiling myself for you, I don’t think that I can be anymore straight forward than this. If you would like to hear more about me, as you may already know and understand, I am a straight forward and open person so contact me. Thank you for taking the time to read my profile.
I think on a first date it would be nice to go to a quiet place to talk and get to know one another. I would think that maybe just going for a walk in a park, or sitting on a park bench. If we click, and there are sparks, then that would open up a whole new world and with romance, there are no limited boundaries. I would think that a movie would not work as a get to know each other venue as we would have to be quiet the whole time. With a dinner we would be too busy eating to talk so that may not be the best bet. So I would think that a quiet place to talk and get to know each other would be best.
When we fall in love, we usually think that's all we'll need to be happy. However, when reality sets in and we have our first real argument, we get hit with the realization that our partner isn't perfect. In the beginning of a relationship we do our best to give our partner the benefit of the doubt, expressing our love and goodwill, even when we're upset. However, as time goes on, it can get harder to resolve arguments and, therefore, harder to feel loving and forgiving towards our partner. It's at these times that we start to ask ourselves, is there a secret to making a relationship last? Is it really possible to live happily ever after? The answer to these questions is, "Yes!" However, the hardest question to answer is: How do we do it? How do I have a lasting, happy relationship that doesn't end in a painful breakup? |
| | First Date |
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The first thing to remember is that keeping a partnership healthy and happy requires work and that it will not happen on its own -- just like a flower won't grow if it isn't watered and fed. Relationships need nurturing, tending to, time, and energy! We often forget that a couple contains two human beings who both need to be appreciated, heard, valued, and respected. With this in mind, I adhere to these seven ways to make a relationship last:
1. Keep the lines of communication open. If you don't know how to express your feelings and/or have poor listening skills, learn to get better at both. You can read a book, take a class, or get into counseling. Good communication requires both the ability to express and listen.
2. Don't sweep your fights under the rug and think they'll magically resolve themselves. Do your best to resolve your first argument as soon as it arises so you won't have the same argument for the next 50 years, in different forms.
3. Remember that you love your partner; therefore, you want the best for her/him. Give her/him the benefit of the doubt when you feel angry, hurt, or disappointed. Talk to your partner; don't make assumptions.
4. Don't take your partner for granted. Tell your partner every day something you appreciate about her/him and how grateful you are to have them in your life.
5. Your partner should never feel like your enemy. If they do, something is wrong; remember that you fell in love with this person. If there's so much anger that you feel like you are enemies, get help somewhere as quickly as possible.
6. Gauge your relationship. Notice and don't ignore the warning signs if you're not talking, you're less affectionate, you're fighting all the time, and you're not happy. The sooner you acknowledge you're having problems, the sooner you can begin to solve them.
7. Always remember that you have the power to change behaviors in your relationship through different tools of self-discovery. You don't have to stay stuck in unhealthy ruts.
Good, lasting relationships are made up of two conscious individuals who have the desire to work on themselves with the determination to stay focused on the importance of their relationship. They do not take their partner for granted. They have their partner's best interest at heart and, therefore, build trust with their partner. When arguments come up, they don't ignore them. They address the issues and try to resolve them. When they see warning signs that their relationship could be in trouble, they act immediately and look for new ways to relate to each other. This can be accomplished by anyone who is willing to take the time and energy to make their relationship a priority in their life. Nurture your partnership as it so richly deserves! You CAN live happily ever after, not with magic, but with work, awareness, and knowledge of yourself and your partner. |
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