I am a hard working woman, looking for a financally & 'emotionally secure', honest, good sense of humor, likes to laugh and has a great personality, also an affectionate man who's not afraid of being in a real relationship,and likes to cuddle up while watching TV.,and having fun and doing things together.I don't like playing head games, have no time or patience for that. I look much younger than I am, i've been told early 40's, so I'm looking for someone-4-5 yrs younger than myself (maybe) 'depends on the man.' That's somewhat'attractive'.That also knows how to treat a woman, People consider me attractive, and Im in pretty good shape I was a personal trainer for 10 yrs. Ive been told I have a great personality and sense of humor. I say what I feel most of the time,I'm honest, nothing wrong w/that right. My hair is drk blonde w/highlights. I'm looking for a man who can be my best friend and also my long term partner eventually, after all life's too short for anything else. My daughter lives at home w/me she'll be 24. I live in Rockland Cty-Nyack, so whomever I meet needs to be not that far from there. Long distance relationships don't work well. Im in the process of trying very hard to quit smoking, it's really hard but I'm determined....

Go for coffee or a drink and just sit and talk in a quiet place and see if there's chemistry and sparks... That's important, w/out that there's no point.