Some say
what are you bringing to the table? What can you do for me that I
cant do for myself? I don't need a man. I am independent. Im
looking for someone to keep it real. Not into games or drama. The
list goes on and on. So, I figured I would address these questions
or statements from my perspective. Ok, first off what can I bring
to the table. Let's see hmmm. I bring virtue, integrity, love,
companionship, honesty, laughter, listening ear, a shoulder to cry
or smile on, manners, respect, ambition, educated mind, and
coolness that cant be denied. What can I do for you that you cant
do for yourself? Companionship and the fact that it is easier to
build together than by oneself. Now if that dont work for you not a
got damn thing if you not willing to allow me to get close to you.
I am a young black man that has everything he could
want in life but a significant other. So, outside of that the same
way some of you women look at men I look at you. I dont need
someone to bring me down, give me a headache, or looking for
something for nothing. Plus Im not going for it anyway so you can
save your time. Dont need a man? You kidding yourself if you think
you dont, unless you a lesbian or a nun. You should get over your
bitterness.I need a woman myself lol. All day everyday.
Independent, nothing wrong with it. I am independent myself. Yet,
no person wants to be beat in the head about how independent you
are. Just turns people off and away. Keeping it real, well this is
the number one cliche on PF and worldwide. People who always say
they keep it real are the ones that are the liars and fake as hell.
How about keep it honest! Not into games or drama, this one gets me
because who is? Ok, granted some like to argue and whatever because
they are just use to that treatment. But it goes back to the
previous Keep it honest! So, if you trying to be casual then just
say you trying to be casual. Doesnt make you less attractive or a
%#&@$! just means you being honest, if you see a man you think
may be a good catch go after him, I do mean the good one not the
guy that you know is not right for you. You country women pretend
to be conservative and prissy knowing you not. Kills me. You all
fake more than woman from the D.C./Norfolk lol. Like the ladies telling the
guys to step their game up and come correct, ladies step your game
up and come better. As they say real recognize real and some of you
looking unfamiliar lol!


I'm originally from Washinton,Dc Chocolate City to be exact for those whom try to be down I currently stay in Va Just recently moved 2 the area about 8 months ago from Raleigh/Charlotte Nc I HAVE NO KIDS.... NEVER HAD AN ABORTION SO THAT MEANS I AM SAFE..LOL(don't believe in those things anyway) but one day I do plan on being a father not just a baby daddy I've made some pretty dumb decisions but at least I won't be one of those guys just sitting on the couch kicking myself for not trying I'm determine 2 make things happen in my spare time I like cooking,movies shopping when money presents it self lol,museums ,spending time with family,traveling,fishing etc... Basically I'm down for what ever just as it doesn't consist of riding roller coaster lol you wont catch my ass on one no way JOSE



THESE ARE JUST SOME OF THE THOUGHTS I`VE HAD DURING MY TIME ON THIS PLANET LOL/ People on here say the dumbest things! Let me elaborate:

1. Am I the only one who gets upset when you see a car with handicapped plates and they parking in a regular parking spot? I mean they got the best spots. Why are they taking the few good ones that we have left.

2. Don't you hate when you ask somebody something, they give you this long drawn out answer, and they STILL don't answer the question you asked?

3. How come bald people wear stocking caps?

4. I actually heard a grown man today used the word "lookeded". What is the world coming to?

5. How come people wear Apple Bottom jeans.....and don't have apple bottoms??

6.How come a female can take a perfectly clear picture os her azz or tits, but when it comes to a face pic, it's so blurry, you think she might be bigfoot?

7.More than likely, if your screen name has "wifey material" or "wifey type", you're probably not.

8. How come you can have a DVD of a movie that you haven`t wanted/tried to watch in 6+ months, but as soon as it comes on regular TV, you just got to see it and will cuss out anybody who tries to changes the channel?

9. -How come people give upon dating people from the internet so quick? As if they never met any bad candidates at work/church/da club/etc. They surely don`t give up on those places.

10. -How come people go through the drivethru at a fast food place, only to park the car and eat in the parking lot? Are they naked from the waist down?


11.-How come no matter how empty a place can be, no matter how many seats are empty across the room, people always just have to sit right next to you?

13. -How come people post a group picture and don`t identify which one they are?

14. How come people don`t read and ask people stuff in a note that`s clearly stated on their page? -

15. How come people say they won`t talk to anybody without a picture on their page, but don`t have one up themselves?

16.I?m just looking for friends? People, when you see People who say this on their page, THEY’RE LYING!! If they were just looking for friends?, why is it necessary for you to have a photo in order for them to respond to you? And yall don’t give me that I want to see who Im talking to bullshyt! That’s tired! The TRUTH is they?re lookin? for mates, and hope to have a ton of People respond to them in hopes that at least one of them is a Keeper. It’s all a numbers game! ?How many people can I get to jock me!? Don’t believe the hype lol!

17.I have a boyfriend/girlfriend, but here?s what I look for in a mate? WTF is this shyt?? Why would we givva dayum what you want in a mate if you?re already taken? Is he/she that bad a mate to where you have to advertise yourself on the internet? What they?re doing is satisfying their perverse addiction for attention! They thrive off the numbers of loser people who compliment and/or try comparing themselves to their interests. People like this are str8 up NO GOOD!! Leave them clowns alone!

18.I?m not your average person; I love to laugh and have fun? Well no shyt? I could?ve sworn you?d be the type that actually enjoys being depressed and miserable. And I didn?t know so few people in the world didn?t like to have fun. WHAT SANE HUMAN BEING DOESN?T LIKE TO LAUGH AND HAVE A GOOD TIME? As if you?re special because you tend to laugh more than the average person. Y?all may want to be a little more creative in your ?I?m so special? descriptions.