Cast back into the sea after a long time on shore. Looking to rediscover myself and the world as it has moved on since I last looked. This will probably take some time to think about as its been a long time since I have had to talk about myself so we will leave this as work in progress for now as am I. I just moved to the area and I am totally lost. I will have to admit I have only been officially divorced a few weeks and I am dealing with that so I will admit that there is some baggage, you must be ok with this if not we will not work. I am not saying I will not try I am just trying to admit that I am working on fixing my life and needs someone that understands that and will work with me.

I am looking for a friend most importantly the rest will be or not be, time will tell. I wish it was different but that is reality. I often think it would be easier to just jump from relationship to relationship till I find me but I am just not wired that way.

My kids are important to me and if you have kids I would expect that they are important to you. , Mine kids are grown and gone sort of; all 3 girls are in college (but return often, maybe sometimes to often just kidding) so I guess this opens a new chapter, But don’t worry they will in time give you the 5th degree. Unfortunately for me they all decided to visit my apartment failed to see the humor in my lack of decorating and furniture. I walked away with the shirt on my back and was happy though they will never know that. Well anyway they took it upon them selves to redecorate and furnish while I have to admit they did a great job I really wish I had not given them my check card.

I am comfortable with starting and moving forward I love my kids and wonder if I am done or not.

It is said a good friend will bail you out of jail and a really good friend will be in there with you saying man wasn’t that a blast. Maybe not looking for that extreme, but looking for that person that makes you feel incomplete when they are not there. My ying to your yang or vice versa. I like to fish and camp and ride motorcycles while that would be an excellent trait as long as you know that this is me and are ok with that the rest will work out, as while I like spending nights on the beach and watching the stars and listening to the waves I would rather have a root canal then go to the mall. I guess the point here is that while it is important to have common interests it is also just as well that we have separate interests. If your life revolves around me and mine around yours I think we will drive each other crazy. If we have similar interests and things tha we like that we can do with others and enjoy that is a good thing.

I work hard all week and have a great job that pays well and I love, otherwise I would not have moved like they have asked me to, Unfortunately with this economy I have moved 5 times in the last two years but with the same company I hope to stop soon but I am at the point where a relationship is more important then a job, luckily I have skills that even in this economy I can still find a job. As far as me I am looking for someone who enjoys watching stupid movies that you watch and wonder why I just spent 2 hours watching that but still had a good time. Ideally you will be just as comfortable on the back of a motorcycle or maybe even driving your own during the day and in a long dress or long dress at night. (This can be important at times)


Enough for now.

Well this is the time when we figure out if we are compatible so would be best to go to a nice cafe preferably open air and have a cup of coffee and get to know each other then we would see where it goes from there