I would love to meet someone with a similar outlook on life. And of course that "chemistry" which doesn't happen very often. Very importantly, I am attracted to a charismatic, intelligent man who makes me laugh. I don't understand why, but it seems that I am asking alot since I cannot seem to find these two qualities in one person. I'm very independent, not a stereotypical American Idol and red sox fanatic. Actually, I am a dog training addict. I have two very lively, animated retrievers who keep me busy. And humble! But they are not the only thing that makes me tick.

First dates are best in a nice, quiet environment like a restaurant with a lounge where you can talk freely and see if the sparks fly. Or meeting in a park and walking my dogs is also an option since they are great at breaking the ice.