Hello, my name is Jay and I thank you for taking a peek at my "Who Is This Guy?" They need another entry in the I AM LOOKING FOR block and it should be Dating/Long Term. Please feel free to message me with any specifics you might want to know about...I will honestly answer any and all inquiries. I suppose I should say up front, I am in search of the ultiMATE woman for me. She's out there somewhere, but is soooo illusive. Perhaps you are her...perhaps your not, but there's only one way to find out, right?
For now, I won't elaborate too much, my interests kind of say who I am. I am an extrovert who enjoys engaging conversation with a little silliness here & there. I can get goofy I guess, but a nice goofy :) I have a grip on where I'm headed in life, even though life threw me some curves but I make adjustments as required to stay on track. I am musically inclined...I play drums & harmonica, and I like most types of music. I like trying new things within reason but I also have a sense of adventure. I am a good friend To anyone who apreciates me for who I 'am' and who or what I am 'not' and I am faithful to my friends and good acquaintences. I treat people with strict regard to the golden Rule (Treat others as you would have them treat you) and I judge people with regard to >>> judge as you would like to be judged. I've been told I look pretty good for 50, and I consider myself to be in pretty good physical condition. I am blessed with not having any disabilities (if you don't count my 'GUY' brain) --- trying to be funny :) My cup is half full, not half empty...I'm an optomist regarding virtually all things, but a realist at the same time...some things just are what they are. I really enjoy female companionship, but don't enjoy trying to play the circuit in order to find a nice woman, if you know what I mean, and if you are a woman who isn't into the circuit thing, you understand that and we are already on the right track. So much for not elaborating I guess :)

Can I encourage you to not be shy? Since you viewed my profile, you have at least a bit of interest or curiosity about me Send me a message, ask me questions, be bold, and most of all....Be Yourself!!!

Oh Geez...The perfect date would be to agree to go out and play it by ear with no solid constraints with the focus being to get to know one another, enjoy each other's company. A meal would be nice, maybe an amusement park, perhaps a visit to a vantage point with a nice view to possibly end with a sunset leading to star gazing. Taking photos would be cool. Ultimately the perfect first date would be that we enjoyed the time with each other and it lead to a second date. ;)

PS: I have a yahoo ID of jaywappa if you want to IM me. Just ID yourself as a PoF member so I'll know who you are. Hope to hear from you.