OK, after being on this site for awhile I think I need to do a little update. I think I'm about the age where if the right girl comes along, I could get into a serious relationship. With that being said, I'm not desperate and I'm not going to settle for something less. I think people "settling" for less is why there are so unhappy couples.

I consider myself healthy and would want that in a girl too. Eating healthy and working out is important to me and I like to surround myself with others who feel the same way. But I'm not the psychotic count-every-calorie-type either.

I like people who challenge themselves, be it physically or mentally. I always want to be reading more, learning more, lifting more, setting and breaking goals, etc. I don't want to be one of those people who live everyday as just a repeat of the day before.

Being intelligent is a huge plus. You don't have to be a genius or anything but know when to use "your" vs. "you're." And one of my pet peeves is people who can't explain why they voted for a certain politician.

Finally, while I like kids and hope to have some eventually, I don't really want to date somebody with their own. Not trying to offend anybody, it's just my preference. Sorry.

And I still don't like cats.

Something different. I'm not a dinner and movie person, at least on the first date. I'm pretty competitive so we could play pool or mini-golf. Or maybe something that takes us both out of our comfort zones so we can see who we really are. Any ideas?