i'm as real and genuine as they come. honest, affectionate, and romantic, LOYAL, and your basic mr nice guy. no games, no looking for a quick goodtime. i'm a sober man of 12 years. that's a good thing, as i follow a program of rigorous honesty. i want to can't wait to see you, and feel like a 60 year old teenager. this is possible. i am very youthful looking and spirited. i want you to be my last first date. i was recently involved with a rock band but had to give it up as it was way too time consuming. i'm a good guy, really. thank you for stopping by, and maybe you will say hello. one other thing, we are all in this together, and, maybe not all of you feel as lonely at times as i do, but when i send a message to someone it is truly from the heart, and, it gets frustrating to not even be acknowledged with a polite no thank you. i politely answer every message i get because i understand where you are coming from, even if i think we would not mesh for one reason or another. hope to meet you here, sincerely jim

i've had a lot of first dates in the last few years, and for one reason or another, the mixture to go further was not there. i like to go out to a restaurant. it ensures a nice amount of time to talk. perhaps if there is a connection, a ride to the boardwalk, weather permitting. i am always a gentleman, and will go along with any thoughts you may have about where to go, and how to meet.