I am a very kind hearted person but i don't put up with anyones crap. i like to have fun with my girlfriends when we have the time to get together and have some drinks and a good time but that isn't too often that i party. i enjoy hangin out with my kids....whether it's sittin at home watchin a movie and eating some junk food or goin to the park or zoo or just anything that puts a smile on their faces. i love time to myself also...not that i get alot of that but when i do i'm completely fine with just sittin at home doin absolutely nothing. i am looking for a man who can appreciate me and my kids. i don't want anymore kids of my own so I prefer to date someone with kids already. i'm a good woman to have. I love to spoil my man. Although I won't be taken advantage of. I just want to be treated the same way i treat someone but i don't want a man who is obsessive and too clingy. i love the bad boy type...tattoos are sexy but not a necessity......

I feel the need to do a quick update so here goes... I am NOT looking for a "hook up". If all u want is sex then don't waste ur energy typing a message to me. Also, I don't wanna date a man that my kids might mistake for their grandpa. I seem to get a lot of messages from men that are 50+yrs old. That's just not my thing.

I am not stuck up but I do want a man that is physically attractive. I may not be model material but I'm not ugly or fat and I want to be with a man that I enjoy bein around AND enjoy looking at. I'm sure all the men that know they aren't my type are thinking I'm a 'b i t c h'. O well. I know I'm not. I just refuse to settle for less than what I deserve. I don't expect to have a brad pitt lookalike but....well u know what I mean. If you are just lookin for friends then I don't care what u look like. I always have room for more friends.


I'm hoping I can change my headline sometime soon. I hate that there's so many jerkoffs still floatin around this screwed up world. Maybe I just need another long break from men. I thought more than a year long break was plenty but apparently not

Date??? What's that??? You mean when a man takes me out somewhere nice? I don't think men still do that lol