Searching with my eyes and mind wide open. Perhaps always trying to find the right person might not always be the answer. Becoming the right person seems to be more of what I would like to do. Being comfortable with myself is what is important. Starting to look within is what I’m learning and yes still learning about this thing called the ”ideal relationship”. I’m certainly not looking for perfection…..heck I think that would get boring after awhile. For me, it’s about true compatibility all around and I know how hard that has been for me to attain. The mix of experiences, values, attraction, expectations and acceptance is not a harmonious match easily found. A healthy mind and a heart that speaks with courage is what I seek. It’s the only way.

Physical attractiveness is what I desire; mental attractiveness is what will ultimately nourish me. I keep seeing this word honesty show up in most profiles – I think if you are unable to present this in a serious relationship perhaps it’s not something you greatly value yourself.
Anyway, just a few thoughts for now and many more to be shared alike as the journey continues.

The one I seek will be…..
intelligent
passionate
humble
most confident but not arrogant
easy going
and real

losing track of time.....