I am sure we are all here for the same thing....are you that fish in the sea for me? Life is like a box of chocolate, you never know what you are going to get. I am experiencing dating is the same way.

So the new year is coming in and I'm afraid to say that "I AM STILL SINGLE"...and I guess you are too if you are still on here? I may have to change my bait on this fishing pole. lol.

Well just some changes I am making for myself in the new year. This new year will be a "NO HOLD BACK YEAR" for me.

For clarification.....
I WILL NOT hold back from sharing, expressing or communicating my feelings.

I WILL NOT hold back when I smell a cheating fish (so if you are married, separated, going back and forth to obviously a broken relationship, then you are not SINGLE)

I WILL NOT hold back on the promises that are waiting to be.....

I WILL NOT hold back until you get your ish together (when looking for a relationship it should be already together)

I WILL NOT hold back if you are a text or email king. (If this is your only way of communication then it only means 2 things....1). You lack personal communication or 2). You are involved with someone and this is the only way you can communicate without getting caught....shame on you!

I WILL NOT hold back on someone desperately seeking a love affair...if you have been on this site for over a year and have not met a long term friend or possible companion...then something must be wrong with you and not the women you are seeking?

I WILL NOT hold back on the mind games, the sugar coated stories in the beginning...or the plain out unrealistic stories...save your non- fiction stories for that novel you should write.

So with that being said...if you are looking for a serious companionship and you don't mind being with a woman who will have your back and takes care of business like a woman should, then go ahead and leave a message. Just make sure you don't live with your momma, you drive your own vehicle, and your career is longevity. Is that too much to ask?

A place where we can communicate (coffee house, bookstore, bar, etc.)