I'm a first rate version of myself...not a second rate version of someone else.Once you become real, you can't become unreal again.

It's not likely I'll suffer from negative emotions...because I'm wise enough not to focus on things or persons that bring me discomfort OR unhappiness.

I'll have a deep need to retain my independence and personal freedom.I sometimes like quiet times alone, to read or do a little gardening,home projects or maybe just meet a g/friend or family member for an afternoon of lunch or dinner and martini's,occasionally. Don't get this confused with having a wild side that I need to burn off with the girls...not the same. When in a serious relationship,I give my mate no reason not to have trust in me.

Now that I've lived alone so many yrs.... I've discovered who I am. I don't need a "Knight in Shinning Armor" to save the day! I love my life, but would welcome a meaningful relationship that starts out "slow" and grows from there.

I'm child-like at times...kid at heart with a demented sense of humor I suppose... and perfer the same in a mate.We will never grow old! I'm not a touchy, feely kind of person but affectionate.If you are witty!!..that's a plus.If you are a one woman man!!..that's a plus. If you have no responsibilities to speak of and can go at a moments notice!!..that's a plus.If you are tall, dark, salt n pepper or completely bald and handsome!!..that's a double plus ...If you are GOING BALD!! SHAVE IT!! Loosin up! get an earring a Harley and some leather chaps!...Woooo Hoooo! The women will love it!! hahahahahaha

Ah... little likes we think we are looking for, everyone has them but that does not mean that's who we may fall for. Be who you are, that is what's important. Telling the truth about yourself results in clarity.It feels powerful and freeing.Denial is a damaging way to decieve yourself!

Just would like to let things go where they may without trying (to hard) to make things work or making some desperate attempt at a relationship that we know is not meant to be..When something is right ...the whole body knows!



I hope we can all find what we have been waiting for, if not here, well...somewhere else.
Good Luck to everyone!