I am a SF native. I was a wild child in the sixties and seventies. By the time I was 19 yrs old I was ready to get straight A's and become a doctor. Don't let the Dr. fool you. I was playing bars at the tender age of 16. I've got book smarts and street smarts. I'm really good when I'm bad.

I still play music from R & B, to latin, to hard rock, to blues, to jazz, to pop and more. Painting is new to me using acrylic on canvas. I have a home with grass, flowers, and japanese maples. No pets anymore. I travel too much for pleasure to keep a pet. My mom needs me, and I am there for her a few times a week. I'm no mama's boy, I just love her.

I live alone because I am waiting for her. I don't need you, I want you. I adore the company of a special woman. I am a passionate man, sometimes gentle and sometimes wild. I'm not sure anything makes me more happy than looking into the satisfied eyes of my one woman in my arms. I want another great love in my life. If you want a life-long commitment before we make love, I'm not the guy. It is too important to want to hold each other. Women friends are easy to find because I respect women and enjoy their company. A real lover is not so easy to find. Sex alone is not enough, but, we both have got to check it out sooner or later. There is a song called, "love the one you're with". No, not just anybody. Someone with whom you already feel the possibilities. If there isn't a possibility for a future, I don't want it. If you and I can't give all of ourselves, I don't want just a little part. If I find her, and she is out there, I'm not a cheat. Never have been, never will be. If you don't think making love is beautiful, I'm not your guy.

We should seek to be dream-makers for each other. I seek to empower those around me, especially my grown kids, my staff, other young people, and especially the woman that will have my heart. I learn from each and everyone I have contact with. They empower me too. I laugh and smile with this wonderful life. No prejudice here. It's all good to me, whatever you are, and from where ever you have come. Be here now.

"Make love, make love, make love, make love". Those who understand that some of us still think we can change the world by making love and don't think it is dirty talk, we have a chance, so let's talk.

All I am saying is that we are here trying to meet someone. I will not give up on meeting that great love again. I also will not give up my "love of life". We are courageous to put ourselves, our hearts, even our souls out here online. I say, give it a chance. Don't put up a bunch of unattainable rules and obstacles. Let the passionate part of us reveal itself. Let's give and receive without concentrating on the difference. In some way we are all looking for love.

First date. I want to know what's in your soul. Are you sure you want a man like me that has lived a lifetime, seemingly more than once? I can fill you with exciting stories about my life. You can invite me into your life if you want. We can share what we have learned. I may ask why should there be limits on what happens from here on. We should feel if there are sparks flying between our eyes. I may not get to kiss your lips, but I should want to. I may not get to hold you in my arms, but I should imagine it. A first date could feel like the a new beginning or a moment to remember connecting with another human being. I am not shy about talking to people I meet throughout the world. Meeting a lady is and talking is not such a big deal, so I invite you to be relaxed and don't you worry 'bout a thing.