First of all, I'm nobody's ideal mate. I'm far too unique to be. I don't believe in the "perfect" match because that places way too much pressure on a single human being. So just be yourself, and allow me to be myself, and hopefully we'll click...and if we don't, there's nothing wrong with being friends.

It's fine if you're into fitness, but I'm not looking to compete with a marathon runner, nor do I have the shape of one (although I do some form of exercise 3-5 times a week). I'm height-weight proportionate more or less...a perpetual work in progress, like most people. Hopefully, you are too...height-weight proportionate, that is. I'm not extremely judgmental about a woman's looks and I don't have a "type." I just want there to be CHEMISTRY. You don't need to be a goddess; cute is fine with me.

I enjoy intelligent conversation and philosophical discussion. I'm not into drama and not looking to argue with you. I'm a film buff who watches everything from blockbusters to obscure art movies, so hopefully you've got equally intriguing tastes. My musical interests are also wide ranging. I'm a social creature who often finds himself without a proper partner to enjoy live music, karaoke and generally making merry...interested?

I can be romantic...with the RIGHT woman. I'm not going to force the issue. I'm generally honest, kind and respectful towards others and I expect to be treated that way. I'm not materialistic, so if you judge a man by his wallet, his car, his house or his credit rating, you'd best look elsewhere. Hopefully, you've gotten to the end of this text and want to get to know me better...

There's no one "right" answer on what to do on a first date. Generally speaking, after we've spent some time talking online and on the phone, we'll probably arrange to meet somewhere in person for dinner or drinks. If she's feeling a little more adventurous, we might go see some live music or go singing karaoke. I enjoy being spontaneous and going with the flow, so there's all KINDS of possibilities...