STOP RIGHT HERE IF YOU ARE SHALLOW, HAVE NO SUBSTANCE OR ARE ILLITERATE( that means you can't read!), LOOK AT THE PICTURES AND MOVE ON PLEASE! DO NOT EMAIL ME TO TELL ME I'M CUTE. IF YOU READ MY PROFILE THAT WOULDN'T EVEN CROSS YOUR MIND.THANK YOU!

I just want you all to know.. I didn't sit in a day and write all of this. It accumulated over about 6 or 7 experiences. So to be honest, I could care less about comments on my well thought out bio. It wasn't thought out, it was off the top of my head over time and I am adding more now and up here because most of you men still send me messages when I am clearly being blunt and to the point to weed YOU out! I dont want you to waste your time or for me to waste yours either. I dont want to have a conversation with you asking me questions that are already here. I dont want anyone over 45,under 30, bald, old looking,doesn't know about personal grooming(please follow proper dental hygiene!) overweight or just plain desperate and needy! Please stop!Want to see what true honesty is... I'm gonna puke!Happy Now! Not shallow just sick of the BS.. I have the right to be selective because I'm looking for the right person to be in MY life!

I'm having fun with this now because there are actually people sending me messages for real conversations. Thanks guys for "Getting It!"
For those that are offended, thanks for "getting it" too!

I love to read and write short stories and poems. I love watching my children play sports, I'm their biggest fan and never miss a game! I really enjoy helping others and I'm currently in school majoring in Psychology. I'm the type of person that tries to single-handedly save the world. I have five children that I think the world of and would do anything for. I am usually a happy-go-lucky person and love to smile and laugh. I like all kinds of music and love to dance but my favorite kind of music is Country. I'm originally from West Virginia so I love mountains and beautiful sceneries, it's just in me! Right now I'm in a transition after my divorce and the birth of my youngest son which is now a year an a half. I'm really enjoying life and doing the things that I love and enjoy. I dont want someone that expects to jump in and be serious, it would just be nice to meet someone that is open to get serious if it led to that. I love horror movies, dark chocolate, the smell of flowers, rainy days doing nothing and just sitting in the park or at the lake talking. I also love to get all dressed up pretty and find something to get into just because.

I'm going to add this..
I'm going to first apologize for not responding to every email but if you plan on carrying on a conversation, please either give me a messenger screen name to add or ask for mine because I can not keep up with this and refuse to sit on this site all day just to wait for your reply and respond. I don't mean to be rude but as I said, I do have kids and I am in school and work so I can't do that and will apologize ahead of time for anything that comes across as inconsiderate by not replying.

The longer I've been on this site, the more I feel I need to add. I apologized for not replying to people and with that I got messages telling me how stuck up I am.

Everyone is entitled to their opinion!

So if you thought I was a B before, I just may confirm it now

I am 36 years old. I could pass for 26 on a good day. I have 5 children that actually look up to me. I am extremely intelligent, sometimes too smart for my own good, with a beautiful soul! I am a very kind, caring and giving person. I've taken in homeless people, give to the less fortunate, and always try to brighten up everyone’s day that I am around. Forgive those that some say don’t deserve forgiveness, never look down on another, would give my last to a friend or foe. I will go without to help anyone in need. I AM A GOOD PERSON! In saying that, I am acknowledging that I know my worth. I know what I’m working with here and have no shame in admitting it, even on my most humble days!


So the reason I am on this site is not out of desperation for phone relations, sexual relations or to overly inflate my ego with compliments from random guys. I know plenty of men already that I could get that from if I was looking for that, but I am NOT! I am on here because I would like to meet someone that can have a decent conversation with me, physically appeal to MY eye and possibly make me feel that in some way I am getting from them, the equivalent of what he will get in me. In addition it would be nice to meet someone that I could one day allow to meet my kids or my friends. I don’t want a sugar daddy, I don’t want a booty call, and I don’t want to date someone that is old enough to be my parent or that even looks like it. I want someone that I can go anywhere with or that can be around anyone I know and feel that we are both comfortable in that situation.

I’m just really getting frustrated with this experience because what I’m getting here… Is what I could get going to a bar! So really, I expect a little more otherwise I wouldn’t be on here. So if you’ve made it this far and truly understand what a gentleman is then you can contact me, otherwise enjoy the pictures and keep your opinions to yourself!

Thank you!

And yet I add more with each additional experience...lol

I'm not into much younger guys either, under 30 may be mature but it's not my preference.
If it takes me forever to find the perfect person than so be it! They dont have to be perfect, just perfect to ME! I'm willing to wait! Really doesn't matter to me how mature you are for your age, If I talk about Rerun and Whats Happening, Hammer pants, flat tops, The Roger Rabbit or Great Space Coaster on Saturdays I want to at least have someone that can relate. Not because their big brother, uncle or parents did it but because they witnessed it or were guilty of it first hand themselves and can laugh about it.
Dont want someone that looks blankly when I talk about the foolish or fun things of my generation. And please don't google these things just because I mentioned it!lol I just want to feel as if someone, anyone... "Gets It!"
If you don't please... stop sending me messages!

Sorry you read all this but I'm going to declare this a lost cause cause I'm too picky!! In my mind I dont think I expect much but to others I expect the impossibble so I'll just stick to being brainy eye candy! Enjoy the pictures guys!

An ideal first date for me would be in its simplest form of just getting to know each other. Or if you insist on a date.. show me where the best burgers are and I'm there!:)