At least one nice girl left....that's me....I'm a private person so I won't put my life story on here but would love to chat if you have a pic and chemistry strikes, I'm very much a kid at heart - I'm not looking to just "hook up"! I chose "dating" because I'm not looking for a relationship.....if it works out that way that would be great, but meeting and getting to know someone has to come first. I'm relatively secure being by myself and not looking for someone to complete me....but I'm not stupid and wouldn't turn down a great thing if I found it.
I'm currently working and I go to school full-time so I do have goals and aspirations. I'm a pretty no-nonsense type of person. I do "call it as I see it" but not at the expense of anothers feelings. Let's face it...I'm 40 yrs old and don't have time to waste on spinning my wheels. Basically, I believe I would rather be alone then be with someone and be unhappy or just for the sake of "being with someone". Plus that's not fair to lead a guy on. I guess that just means I'm pretty honest about stuff and not into playing games, etc. Let's chat. If you don't have pic I will not respond...not bein mean just know what I want! Must have: JOB, HOME, CAR...not for me I have my own. I'm a FT Student working towards my degree, self-sufficient, I have one son but he's in college, don't mind kids as long as they don't come with a jealous ex! lol I get along with everybody and understand that I'm not always going to come first in your life....I can deal with it. I'm not a real clingy person. I sometimes tend to be a bit old-fashioned so if you think chivalry is dead we may have a problem and if you don't know what it means then ~shame on you~ lol......Although sarcasm is the lowest form of wit I seem to be that way but 99% of the time I'm trying (I said trying) to be funny! Ok well that's part of me in a nutshell...thanks for taking the time getting to know me and good luck to you! Oh...p.s. -" He's her lobster"?? Anyone who was a fan of friends would probably know that lobsters mate for life...that's what I'm looking for so I found it fitting!

Hmmm?? Public place most likely where we both feel comfortable. Somewhere to talk to see if we "click"...but nothing to serious in case one of us needs to bail! lol coffee? a glass of wine?