I'm a contract security guard. TV writing is my career goal, 420 friendly, reading, guitar (love to meet a musician of any kind), YouTube, DVDs, music, travel (driving), small parties with friends, clubs/bars ok, live music/concerts better. Prefer women my age or older, someone who's open to seeing what's out there, I'm not specifically looking for instant-wife#2, but I don't wear blinders, either.

Music: David Bowie, Lou Reed/The Velvet Underground, T.rex, Iggy Pop/The Stooges, Roxy Music/Brian Ferry, Krafwerk, MC5, Steely Dan, The Floyd/Syd Barrett, Led Zeppelin, Julee Cruise, Enya, Suede, of Montreal, Pulp, The Moody Blues, Gorecki.

Please, it's really a first MEETING. Bar/club, bookstore, cafe. If you're an "old fashioned gal" that just wants a free dinner with a complete stranger, get a job and/or brain. Looking for a real woman, done w/ girls long ago. 'All is vanity', but if you have no self esteem, my best of luck to you. *PLEASE READ THIS PART: I put "separated" under my profile because I don't lie. I need to keep my ex on my benefits for a while so that's why we haven't filed for divorce yet. It's over, we've our own lives, she lives in SF Bay area, no need to file until one of us meets a good reason. Ok? No more questions re 'why r u married?' Just read.