Ok... So I just turned 38, never married (but I have had a couple relationships that each lasted over 3 years),I would like to get married if I found the right person, I have a daughter who will be 21 in September (I was 17 when she was born and happy for it), I own my own house, I have a car (so, no you won't have to pick me up if we were to go out), I love to make people laugh, I'm extremely loyal, and I consider myself a very positive person.

I'm looking to meet someone who is intelligent (but not too much smarter than I am), someone who knows what she's looking for ("me" would be great), someone who loves to laugh with me (hopefully not at me), someone who is honest, and truly wants to meet and get to know someone... (does it look bad that I used the word someone so much? Should I erase some of the "someone's"?)

Forget it! I'm sure "someone" will respond.

Let's just meet for coffee or a drink. We can each lie to eachother and say we have other plans that day and if we have any kind of chemistry we could pretend to break our fake plans and just be spontaneous!