I am an extraordinary person seems I’ve live equivalent to five lifetimes so far. I'm a survivor, divorced after a 35 yr marriage, left to save my life. I can get along with just about anybody, and I've been told; I'm the ultimate package deal, looks, brains, sexy, helper, committed, nothing I won’t do for someone I love. I am not a desperate woman; I think out every decision I make. In the past I always did what was going to be good for others, to my detriment. I have a second chance now to start to live again, this time, for myself and that special person, if there is one, that lines up with my interests, passions, goals, values and sexual compatibility.

I bring a lot of fun and excitement to all aspects of a relationship, outside the kitchen, although fire always has generated excitement. You never know what I might do next to surprise you, as I am very creative. And delivery is everything no matter what that might be. Chocolate is my only vice and Dove Dark is my standard by which all chocolate is measured.

CHEMISTRY is VERY important. Either a couple is a good match or not. I strongly believe in being financially responsible. I hold down a full time job, weekdays, take online classes, evenings, play music on the weekends. I live debt free. This is the first time in my life I have ever had to do it all on my own… and I’m doing it. If you are in debt up to your ears, I’m not a good match. I'm burned out on organized religion. I am a deeply religious person, however it is a personal walk I have with my Maker and He has spared my life numerous times all to bring me to this, the best part of my life. If you are a Jesus freak, I’m not going to be a good match. (One man told me that God wanted me to marry him!!…yea, right, BAD MATCH!!”. If you are a couch potato… I’m not a good match. I never watch TV...sometimes a good movie, or a movie of my making. There is a world of things out there to do, see and learn….

And then there is MUSIC. I find it hard to visualize myself with someone who isn't into music or a relate field. And I cannot visualize myself with someone who is into music who has bad timing….I’m a doghouse bass player in a bluegrass band and timing is critical. MUSIC is a HUGE part of my life.

Everything in my life is either music or art. I have an irresistible desire to create new and beautiful things. I am a flexible, gentle person with great enthusiasm for life. I am not only interesting I am interested in everything and can carry on a conversation on just about topic, construction,botany, auto body work, computers, technology, various cultures, religions, history, travel… you name it.
I’m very romantic, and I plan to do special things for that new man in my life. I would love someone to send me flowers for no reason, take me to dinner and dancing, dressed for the occasion. I have never had anyone in my life to treat me like I was special. I need to be held and loved, quiet time, intimate time together. Now I could live life on my own and enjoy it, but I believe that enjoyment is enhanced tremendously when you have someone to share it with,like the frosting on a cake… and then the colored sprinkles on top with a scoop of ice cream on the side. To know me, all of me, is to love me but few people have ever ventured there.

What I’m looking for:
I'm looking for someone like me.
Someone who shares the same wide variety of interests I do.
Music it a priority.
I'm looking for a LTR, I miss being married.
Must be financially stable.
No drama from former relationships.
Looking for someone who shares my enthusiasm for live, love and all the good things this life has to offer. From a simple sunset, to a Shakespearean play.
I like a well dressed man, one who takes some pride in his appearance, well mannered man, knows what fork to use in a restaurant and opens doors for women.
I am repulsed by the couch potato, I like men who want to learn and grow and experience, new things, new places, new cultures.
In my book my spouse comes first and that should be a two way street.
I know I said I'm looking for someone like me... well there is one exception I willing make...If you can cook, that's acceptable.
I'm not looking for the perfect man, but the perfect man for me. I have always done things in my life that were good for other people not myself... I have a second chance to find what is God's best for me.

How about starting with a phone call and go from there? I would love to meet in a public place, like a park or a small restaurant just to talk. I love downtown Greenville, carriage rides, walk by the falls, sitting on a park bench and just talking. OR a quiet restaurant where they have dancing. I love to go for long walks, they make an ideal time to get to know one another.