People are drawn to me because I project positive energy, happiness and fun. I have Southern manners and a New Orleans zest for life. Trauma and drama are not in my mindset ---- enjoying my life is important . Often strong women are drawn to me because I do not compete with them,, I am totally secure and encourage and applaud their success. I have never had an urge to conform to the other lemmings -- let them jump over the cliff, I"ll watch. We can drink champagne and be amazed at humanity. I am romantic and have a sense of adventure, dress up, dress down, ----- where do I want to eat? where do I want to go??? Those are irrelevant to me,, who I am with determines if we have a good time or not.... with the right person, anything is fun. I travel to New Orleans and Mississippi coast almost monthly. I love the Gulf and also travel to the Tx coast every month. It is unlikely I will contact you first, drop me a quick note, and I will take it from there.
If you do not like to be touched, hugged, kissed, and generally loved on, I would not be a match, I know its not a macho thing,,but I am VERY affectionate.. I am the best kisser in the world,, I kiss all the way to your soul.


I have 2 fantasies --- I would like to eat a complete meal without spilling anything on my shirt, and I would like to attend a dinner buffet at Krispy Kreme.

My favorite quote is ::: from Monty Python ::: " You are so blessedly free of the ravages of intelligence"

To the ladies --- do you REALLY think men are impressed with the pics of your dogs and cats??? YOU DO???? REALLY??!?!?!

This is getting too long,, but one last thing---- about women--- the reason I hve no interest in 40 yr olds -------- I prefer someone who has lived life, not just observed it ----- Same reasoning applies to your body---- scar here, something there --- who wants a body that has been preserved in a jar. There is no richness of life in a perfect 25 yr old body --- but , alas, I think tht is what most idiot men my age seek.

Can this possibly be true???? I have received NUMEROUS emails from 40ish women telling me unless I plan on celibacy I am wasting my time on women my age. They inform me that between medication, hormones, and grandparenting -the last thing a 50+ yr old woman wants is sexual intimacy. Guess that pops my balloon, I just have to assume they are right, damn it.