when im not working i like to spend time with the people closest to me, my friends and family. i enjoy curling up with my cats (and maybe that special someone) and watch movies, food network, animal planet, and a few other tv shows

i am a very caring and nurturing person, sometimes to a fault. but i need someone that wants to take care of me too. im a big fan of PDA. my whole family hugs, im a massage therapist, im just a 'hands on' kind of gal. im the one who knows where everyone dropped their keys, lost their hat and left their bags at the end of the night....yet i cant seem to keep track of myself! im always fighting to keep my room clean. lol i love entertaining and having friends over for dinner, and love having a partner who likes to cook with me. i love my cats, i know i have to many, 4 of them, but i love 'em and will not get rid of any of them. ((im just lucky i restrained myself and didnt keep one of the new kittens abandoned out at my sisters place!! lol)) i want to be a better housekeeper and work on my yard more but need motivation to get up and do it. so someone who has those desires would be best for me. i like going out to a bar or club from time to time with friends but its not a daily or even weekly occurance. most nights i want to come home after work (10 pm) and just chill with my partner and kitties. maybe have some friends over. i am mostly a homebody.
i am VERY anti cheating. i have never cheated on anyone. i dont every want to be the "other woman." i am very much of the opinion that 'if he will cheat WITH you he will cheat ON you.' so please, if thats something that you tend to do please just move along.

my ultimate goal in life would be to get my massage business to the point where i didnt have to have a full time second job to pay the bills. where i am physically able and have a large enough clientele to sustain myself. i love helping people feel better, its a wonderful feeling when someone gets off the table and tells you that their headache is completely gone, or that there hip doesnt hurt for the first time in over a week, knowing that you are the catalyst.
i do enjoy working in the kitchen though too. i like being part of a good team. restaurant work is stressful but something i seem to enjoy.

as far as music goes i like a wide variety. not a big fan of rap, techno, heavy metal though

god i have myself sounding like a saint on here. im not lying about who i am however i am no where near perfect, but then who is?? i have a very stubborn norwegian streak in me.

really looking for someone within 45-60 minutes of Eureka, long distance relationships dont tend to work out too well in my opinion.

thats hard i dont often do "dates" but i suppose i would start by going mini golfing, bowling, frisbee golfing or some sort of goofy easy going activity like that where we can move around, laugh together, and just get to know each other. from there we would head to a good sushi restaurant where we can enjoy some fresh fish, good company and maybe a drink.