The life I find myself in is such surprise to me. I never thought I would be alone. I always thought I would be married with lots of kids, but it didn’t work that way. I have one amazing child and I am so glad to be his Mom. I keep thinking that I must have done something really good to be blessed with such an intelligent, entertaining and compassionate boy. When my son was small and being a single parent, I made a conscious decision not to date. I felt strongly that my son did not need to be seeing me with a bunch of different men or have to share me with dates or even have his heart broken should he have come to care about someone I was involved with. That was quite a while ago. My son is 15 yrs old now and needing me less and less. Time for me now! BUT…I work at home and there’s no reason to leave the house except to shop for groceries. I want to break out, have some fun, but money or family or responsibilities or just no one to do it with stops me. I ride my bicycle a lot and I love that. I take a ride through the woods and then hike to my favorite spot I found there and sit there for as long as I dare, contemplating whatever needs to be contemplated.

Where is the man that will be my friend? Dance with me in the rain. Pull me out of bed at 3am to watch the storm light up the sky. Ride the white water of the Colorado with me. Take glider plane lessons with me. Live an adventure with me every day. There are so many things I want to do and I would love to meet someone that is attractive to my eyes that will relish doing them with me and have some of his own to add to the mix. I want to go up in a balloon, to spend a week in the Grand Canyon with a mule a tent and a raft, to snorkel the great barrier reef, to stay in a hotel under the sea, go shelling somewhere, cook with someone that enjoys it too, build a bon fire and tell stories, and so many other things that I will not mention here. Heh heh. You get the idea.

If you are tall that turns me on maybe more than it should; however, one of the two men I’ve loved in my life was shorter than me. Overweight is fine, but obese is not. You should be able to walk and healthy enough to hike with me, bike with me and make love with me. You should be settled in your life. You don’t drink other than socially and don’t do drugs or smoke. Sense of humor is absolute necessity with me. If you take things too seriously then we’re not a match. You must be open-minded and ready to seize each new adventure as it comes our way. LOL…OMGosh…I KNOW I am asking too much but this is just way too much fun…my fantasies running amok. I don’t care about how good looking you are or how much hair you have or how many expensive possessions you have. I don’t care about any misstep you may have made in the past, only what you will do in the future and more importantly what you are doing now. Impossible? Maybe…but I am forever hopeful. : )

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