we'll find two destinations......still chances are only what we make them and all I need." Went to see Five for Fighting the other week and can't get this song out of my head. Seems appropriate for an online dating site where all we're really looking for is a chance. As John Ondrasik puts it perfectly, "It's all about taking the swing—there's beauty in the scars."

At this point, we all have the scars. Some inflicted by others but we've inflicted our share as well- and some self-inflicted. Still I have faith that it is worth the effort to continue taking a shot.

About me: Honest, sincere, active guy with great family and friends and a career I love looking to enhance an already good life. I find fun and humor in just about everything and the true indication of a good relationship is one that thrives in the mundane of the everyday. Interests include coffee, reading, cycling, golf, live music and theater, finding the perfect IPA, sports, and traveling - spent 40 days on the road this summer and put almost 10,000 miles on the car. Comfortable in a 5 star hotel or riding my bike across Iowa and sleeping in a tent.

Doesn't matter as along as we can talk and see if it is worth taking another chance.